[kevin32]

Ladies, I read all your posts. Thank you for responding. I've got alot of reflection to do based on your responses.

[Little_Miss_Me]

To be honest, at the particular time in my life, I'd jump on the idea of just having a friend with benefits over a relationship.

But if some guy just randomly walked up to me and asked, I'd be polite and refuse.
1.) I don't know the guy.
2.) I'm not going to be sure if he's kidding or not.
3.) If he does this a lot, then I'm pretty sure I don't want to go near him with a 10 foot stick.

[Guest]

There are sites on the internet for this.

Go there, explore, be careful what you wish for....

[miva]

I agree with itsasecret that just walking up to a women and asking for sex is probably not the best way to find what your looking for, but I myself wouldn't pick up a man or woman in a club. Mainly because most of them are so inhebriated I wouldn't find it comfortable. However if that's the kind of thing your looking for its definatly a place with the best odds.
Another way - a way that I've found to be fairly successful - is the world of online dating. It allows you to see who is interested in the same thing you are without having to scare anyone, and they have the opportunity to turn you down without the awkwardness of meeting.
Chances are if they're interested in the same thing, then a conversation over coffee could quickly lead to the bedroom without all the introductions and prolonged dates.