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Here there's loads of replys from men who don't like the chase, so enough with all this "men are natural hunters" and "it's the mans duty too chase".
Here's some quotes from men who don't like the chase from that thread, I didn't even have to patience to read through all that so theres probably alot more.
"I used to but stopped because she had control over me and I looked dumb chasing her around all the time. but I guess most guys think like I do or been through a situation were they didn't like to chase girls."
"Do I chase girls? No, it's needy.
Do I approach girls I find attractive, initiate the conversation and get the ball rolling, yes. "
"Why should anyone have to work for it? If you both want each other why would anyone play hard to get? Women don't have to work very hard for men, (although they think they do -- they spend a lot of effort on stuff men don't care much about,) so why should men have to work hard for women? If a woman wants to know more about a man before getting into a relationship, that's actually good. But such a situation should be made obvious to both people. Playing hard to get is just retarded"
"I don't really chase girls anymore, because honestly, it's getting tedious and boring with all the chasing. I don't want it to be too easy, but chasing is just childish and boring. I don't like to play games and figure out whether a girl likes me or not by deciphering her mixed signals. If she acts like she isn't interested, I just move on and stop wasting my time on her. "
"If you believe you deserve to be chased, you need to get over yourself. It's so absurdly selfish, like a guy asking "Hey why don't women just do whatever we say anymore? Remember the good 'ol days when we could just beat them to vent some anger? Where have all the real women gone?"
If you have respect for human beings, you don't expect them to do things you'd never do. "
"No because chasing is for children. I'm not saying be super easy, but don't play games and make us guess too much. That always causes problems and frustration. Save it. "
"when I was 23, I was falsely accused of sexual harassment, just because I said "hello to the wrong woman. they made me sit through a sexual harassment video and I got a written warning. I swore from then on, that any woman that wanted me, would have to ask me out, and make the first move. I swore I would not even look at a girl or say hello, unless she said hi first!
I am 40 now. and still single. I kept my word "
" "what happened to you is rare"
but guess what, it happens more than women think, and it happened to me, and any woman that says or implies "get over it" just shows how insensitive she is to a man's feelings"
there are tons of websites out there about men who are falsely accused of things and they are scarred. and women just don't care how men feel.
women always ask why there are so many bitter men. "
^^^ guess why I come across as bitter in my posts?
These where just some posts I saw of men who didn't like chasing a woman, and I didn't read through that whole thing(too long, not enough patience lol) so this whole ALL men like the chase? not true.
Here there's loads of replys from men who don't like the chase, so enough with all this "men are natural hunters" and "it's the mans duty too chase".
Here's some quotes from men who don't like the chase from that thread, I didn't even have to patience to read through all that so theres probably alot more.
"I used to but stopped because she had control over me and I looked dumb chasing her around all the time. but I guess most guys think like I do or been through a situation were they didn't like to chase girls."
"Do I chase girls? No, it's needy.
Do I approach girls I find attractive, initiate the conversation and get the ball rolling, yes. "
"Why should anyone have to work for it? If you both want each other why would anyone play hard to get? Women don't have to work very hard for men, (although they think they do -- they spend a lot of effort on stuff men don't care much about,) so why should men have to work hard for women? If a woman wants to know more about a man before getting into a relationship, that's actually good. But such a situation should be made obvious to both people. Playing hard to get is just retarded"
"I don't really chase girls anymore, because honestly, it's getting tedious and boring with all the chasing. I don't want it to be too easy, but chasing is just childish and boring. I don't like to play games and figure out whether a girl likes me or not by deciphering her mixed signals. If she acts like she isn't interested, I just move on and stop wasting my time on her. "
"If you believe you deserve to be chased, you need to get over yourself. It's so absurdly selfish, like a guy asking "Hey why don't women just do whatever we say anymore? Remember the good 'ol days when we could just beat them to vent some anger? Where have all the real women gone?"
If you have respect for human beings, you don't expect them to do things you'd never do. "
"No because chasing is for children. I'm not saying be super easy, but don't play games and make us guess too much. That always causes problems and frustration. Save it. "
"when I was 23, I was falsely accused of sexual harassment, just because I said "hello to the wrong woman. they made me sit through a sexual harassment video and I got a written warning. I swore from then on, that any woman that wanted me, would have to ask me out, and make the first move. I swore I would not even look at a girl or say hello, unless she said hi first!
I am 40 now. and still single. I kept my word "
" "what happened to you is rare"
but guess what, it happens more than women think, and it happened to me, and any woman that says or implies "get over it" just shows how insensitive she is to a man's feelings"
there are tons of websites out there about men who are falsely accused of things and they are scarred. and women just don't care how men feel.
women always ask why there are so many bitter men. "
^^^ guess why I come across as bitter in my posts?
These where just some posts I saw of men who didn't like chasing a woman, and I didn't read through that whole thing(too long, not enough patience lol) so this whole ALL men like the chase? not true.
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