[Ashlee T.]

No one has said that the difference betwen 6ft 2 and 5ft 10 would not be a noticeable one. That's all I'm asking. Nothing more. Nothing less. The penis thing is old news. Not a concern anymore.

For the sake of time, I'm going to include all this as one large quote. However, the sentences below were pulled from various responses to your thread. If these things did not answer your questions, then nothing will. It seems to be more of an ocd thing in which you get answers that you don't want, then you change the format of your question and even though it's the same question, you expect different responses. No matter in which way you ask, it is never going to change. We are here to help in any way we can, but if you truly after all these responses feel like your questions aren't being answered, then it's quite clear a professional is what you need. And that is not in any way an insult. I genuinely want to see you get past this.

Like I said, I've never dated anyone above 5'6", meaning there has always been at least a foot difference, sometimes even a foot and a half. It's not an advantage and it doesn't make things better in any way.

dewd........ I want you to do something for me. Go get your measuring tape, yard stick, ruler, whatever you've got. And look at 1 foot. See how small that is? Hold your hands out to mirror that size. See how small and insignificant that is in relation to an entire body size? You're not even talking about a foot here, you're talking about 9 inches.

I'm trying to remember, but I believe you are 5'8" and she is around 5'2". Do you feel like a monster next to her? Do you look at her and feel like she's dwarfed next to you? You are 5-6" taller than her. And you are saying that's insignificant. But her ex is only 3-4" taller than you and you are saying that's significant. You must see how this makes ZERO logical sense.

Half my boyfriends were a foot taller than me. I think my husband is 11" taller. So long as the guy is at least a couple inches taller than me I don't really notice what his exact height is or care.

Nope, it's not weird. Unless they lean down, I've had to tiptoe to kiss every guy I've ever kissed.

No. Again, you are making it into way more than it is. We don't view people for their height, we view people for who and what they are. Just as much as a man shouldn't NOT date a woman because too short.

I don't think that difference in height is a lot. I've always been about 8 inches shorter than the guys I've been in relationships with and they're your height

If the difference between you and her (5 inches) is what you consider minimal, then you must also consider the difference between you and her ex (4 inches) to be minimal. The difference between 5'10" and 6'2" is LESS than the size of my hand...and I'm a petite female.

As I've told you before, I'm 5'3''...my bf is 6'2". It doesn't feel weird. We don't get stares like he's the jolly green giant and I'm part of the lollipop guild. Is he taller than me? Heck yea. Am I shorter than him? Yep. Can he reach things I can't? Sure. lol... that's about it.

A man's height has NO IMPACT on his penis size, the shortest man I've been with was 5'5" and his penis was over 9 inches; the tallest was 6'7" and his penis was maybe 6 inches

[FortunsFoole]

No one has said that the difference betwen 6ft 2 and 5ft 10 would not be a noticeable one. That's all I'm asking. Nothing more. Nothing less. The penis thing is old news. Not a concern anymore.

Since so many people have been, in one way or another, saying it doesn't matter... because, really, SHE is the only one who can say whether there's a noticeable difference between all of your heights. None of us can speak her opinion for her to you, and her opinion on this is the only one that matters. Trust her. Has she given you any reason not to? Who knows, maybe she prefers you not only for the person you are but also that your heads are in much closer proximity. Makes for easier access for a quick smooch, yeah? Maybe it's a little more intimate having an eye to eye conversation because there can be less space between you. Who knows? We don't know her preferences, but she definitely will.

But I'm confused why you keep asking the question again in different ways and seem to be disregarding most of the responses. Do you WANT to stand out as different? Or are you looking to be lumped in with the other men that came before you?

Does this matter to you because the differences between her and your ex bother You? Is it possible your projecting your own feelings to justify yourself? (Just questions, not accusing you of anything)

[Guest]

Since so many people have been, in one way or another, saying it doesn't matter... because, really, SHE is the only one who can say whether there's a noticeable difference between all of your heights. None of us can speak her opinion for her to you, and her opinion on this is the only one that matters. Trust her. Has she given you any reason not to? Who knows, maybe she prefers you not only for the person you are but also that your heads are in much closer proximity. Makes for easier access for a quick smooch, yeah? Maybe it's a little more intimate having an eye to eye conversation because there can be less space between you. Who knows? We don't know her preferences, but she definitely will.

But I'm confused why you keep asking the question again in different ways and seem to be disregarding most of the responses. Do you WANT to stand out as different? Or are you looking to be lumped in with the other men that came before you?

Does this matter to you because the differences between her and your ex bother You? Is it possible your projecting your own feelings to justify yourself? (Just questions, not accusing you of anything)

She's actually said she feels like most of the guys she'd dated are roughly the same height. How 5ft 10 and 6ft 2 are roughly the same is beyond me, but that's what she said.

[Guest]

She's actually said she feels like most of the guys she'd dated are roughly the same height. How 5ft 10 and 6ft 2 are roughly the same is beyond me, but that's what she said.

Thank you all for your patience.

[WildChild]

She's actually said she feels like most of the guys she'd dated are roughly the same height.

There is your answer.

[Guest]

There is your answer.

does a 4 inch difference make someone roughly your height?

[LanaBear]

It's FOUR inches for crying out loud!!!

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^^^ That is four inches, is that a HUGE difference. NO!!! I'm 5'3" and seriously, to me, anything over 5'7" is tall, lol. After that, who cares? Tall is tall is tall is tall. Why nit pick over INCHES????

[Texinator]

Thank you all for your patience.

Are you generally prone to obsessions, such as washing your hands repeatedly, needing everything to be an even number, and so forth? No disrespect, but this obsession about height seems very extreme, and I'm just wondering if it is a part of general obsessive compulsive behavior.

[Alexandra]

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You either are doing this for attention, or you have some issues with obsession that we cannot help you with. Yes, 5'10" is different from 6'2". No, it does not matter. Please give it a rest. If these thoughts are really so obsessive, perhaps you should see a professional?

[Guest]

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You either are doing this for attention, or you have some issues with obsession that we cannot help you with. Yes, 5'10" is different from 6'2". No, it does not matter. Please give it a rest. If these thoughts are really so obsessive, perhaps you should see a professional?

I assure you, I am not doing this for attention. Yes, I struggle with OCD. It makes illogical things feel very logical once my mind gets locked into a thought. It's frustrating. I was hoping to hear just the right thing in here so I could take a deep breath and stop giving a . I haven't heard it yet I guess. That's how these things work for me. But alas, it's much to strange and complicated to solve here. I am going to a counsellor and it helps. BUt not completely.