[Mat]

Hey, how's your day going? I am looking for a variety of perspectives when it comes to meeting & attracting the man (men) of your dreams. Whether you've succeeded or still working on it I am sure you have something valueable to share.

1. What would be your dream scenario/outcome? In detail, exactly what kind of guy are you looking for?

2. What have or haven't worked for you so far?

3. What do you think the solution is? What would you like it to be?

4. In this context, what are your biggest fears and frustrations? Be as specific as you can.

Hopefully this will make you contemplate things you haven't considered before and be helpful to others as well. Thanks in advance.

[Alynna]

Is there any right guy? you cannot selecte a guy as you selecte a pair of shoes you just fall in love and accept the man the way he is, even you feel he is the right one, you cannot be sure ever of anyone...everything is risky in life

[jns]

Is there any right guy? you cannot selecte a guy as you selecte a pair of shoes you just fall in love and accept the man the way he is, even you feel he is the right one, you cannot be sure ever of anyone...everything is risky in life

Women often try to change their guy for the better, as they see it. Guys rarely change, but not for the lack of trying on the woman's part.

[Magnetism]

Meeting the right guy means you have to know what you want. Many women and men don't know what they want or know what to ask for. I think me becoming the ideal mate first will attract the right mate, which is easier said than done.

[jns]

Magnetism, you don't have to become the ideal mate for everybody or a lot of people. You don't have to become even the ideal mate for your chosen mate. You just have to be somewhat close. That person's ideals will change some to fit how you are.

[danceintx]

1. What would be your dream scenario/outcome? In detail, exactly what kind of guy are you looking for?
A man who accepts me for who I am, that is considerate and respectful of me, who wants me to be the best me I can, through following my own dreams and living a fulfilling life for myself but sharing with him. And we would be life partners.

2. What have or haven't worked for you so far?
Hasn't worked-Being with a man solely because he wants me really bad. Entering into relationships when I am in a bad place in life, I believe you meet the right person when you are the best you at a good place in life, doing what you want to be doing with your life.Then you are with someone because you want them, not because you need them.

3. What do you think the solution is? What would you like it to be?
That people should live their lives as they want to, as they should be and what's best for them, loving themselves, and a good healthy relationship will come to them for the right reasons.

4. In this context, what are your biggest fears and frustrations? Be as specific as you can.
To trust someone and they end up being a completely different person than what you thought they were.