[Ai15]

Okay, so before you start going on about how i'm young and everything... I know that... But i started dating my friend who had had a girlfriend previosly and everything. We've been going out for 3 mounths with very little problems, He made 1st moves. He also acted sslightly camp every now and again but i mean hes also a typical guy who plays sports and can be voilent and stuff... [B]ut we were at my house on his facebook messaging each others friends and i saw hed told hi best friend (whos a girl) that he had a draem about making out with a boy... I asked him about it and we both got mad at each other but today we made up... Im just really still freaked out and not sure what to feel i mean were young.. I didnt expect to have to deal with this in my first relishionship... What am i even ment to do???

[Stillness]

Having a weird dream doesn't make someone bisexual. I had an extremely vivid dream (so vivid that I remember it 20 years later) that I was a girl being intimate with a boy when I was about your age. I'm very much heterosexual, and have never been female. It didn't even bother me because I just figured that it was a result of me falling in love with my girlfriend at that time.

I'm sure you've had some strange dreams before, right? Maybe you've done things or felt things in them that you don't experience in your waking hours. We don't really have much control over what goes through our minds when we sleep. As long as you treat each other well, don't worry about it.

[vinnyt]

Okay, so before you start going on about how i'm young and everything... I know that... But i started dating my friend who had had a girlfriend previosly and everything. We've been going out for 3 mounths with very little problems, He made 1st moves. He also acted sslightly camp every now and again but i mean hes also a typical guy who plays sports and can be voilent and stuff... [B]ut we were at my house on his facebook messaging each others friends and i saw hed told hi best friend (whos a girl) that he had a draem about making out with a boy... I asked him about it and we both got mad at each other but today we made up... Im just really still freaked out and not sure what to feel i mean were young.. I didnt expect to have to deal with this in my first relishionship... What am i even ment to do???

from a straight guys prespective, if he just had a dream, a dream alone wouldnt make him straight or gay. But if he thinks about "trying" he is gay, straight guys do not want to "try" being with other guys! straight guys do not even think about other men it just doesnt work that way
if you are not willing to share, yes you are correct you shouldnt be dealing with anything you dont like in your 1st relationship, or any realtionship, like this will be ok if it was your 10th relationship right

[BabyGirl]

Okay, so before you start going on about how i'm young and everything... I know that... But i started dating my friend who had had a girlfriend previosly and everything. We've been going out for 3 mounths with very little problems, He made 1st moves. He also acted sslightly camp every now and again but i mean hes also a typical guy who plays sports and can be voilent and stuff... [B]ut we were at my house on his facebook messaging each others friends and i saw hed told hi best friend (whos a girl) that he had a draem about making out with a boy... I asked him about it and we both got mad at each other but today we made up... Im just really still freaked out and not sure what to feel i mean were young.. I didnt expect to have to deal with this in my first relishionship... What am i even ment to do???

I thought long and hard about my Reply, as I tend to be " Motherly " on here.
Meaning I am a Bit Brunt and to the Fact, based on my almost 60 years old opinion.
Having been through things at your age and having gone through my Children going through " their " Sexual teen ages.

If you know you are too young to understand some aspects of Dating or Sexual Activity, try to talk with an Adult that you Trust. Mother, Father, Aunt, Uncle. School Nurse, Counselor, It is best that I, not advise a 15 year old.

Other than to search someone you can TRUST that is Physically in your Life. Not Internet Wise.
Either of you are CAMP or even Capable of " CAMP " at such a age.

But it may be something you might start looking at to begin your Future for any relationships.

To be truthful I had to ask my 23 year old Daughter what the new explanation for Camp was ?
She said look it up ..I did and I found a Camp for Teens.
Then she said it was " New Lingo " for Teens and said do the Wikipeda thing .

I felt obligated to post this definition of 'camp' since I believe it to be the most accurate. This is borrowed from dictionary. Internet not Book.

1. something that provides sophisticated, knowing amusement, as by virtue of its being artlessly mannered or stylized, self-consciously artificial and extravagant, or teasingly ingenuous and sentimental.

2. a person who adopts a teasing, theatrical manner, esp. for the amusement of others.

3. An affectation or appreciation of manners and tastes commonly thought to be artificial, vulgar, or banal.

4. Banality, vulgarity, or artificiality when deliberately affected or when appreciated for its humor: "Camp is popularity plus vulgarity plus innocence"
adj. Having deliberately artificial, vulgar, banal, or affectedly humorous qualities or style: played up the silliness of their roles for camp effect.

So you can see, camp, as it was originally known as and still, in my opinion, most accurately, has nothing to do with being gay.



I see no way that you or he should have any Issues.
Until you and he decide you are ready for both of your Parents to know you are " Camping " .

[Little]

What are you concerns if your boyfriend may be bisexual? Do you find bisexuality to be a negative thing?

IMO, don't worry about it unless you think it will cause problems. A bisexual person is not a bad person, nor does bisexuality mean that your boyfriend will want to sexually explore with other men. If you have an expectation of monogamy in your relationship, keep it, regardless of the gender of the "other people" either of you might be interested in.

But really, it does not sound like he's bisexual. It's just a dream, and it sounds like he was concerned or felt the dream was out of character. You've probably heard about all the "hormones" you have running around as a teen. It's kind of alarming to look back and realize how much "hormones" and misunderstood sexual desire colored my actions back then. Embrace your feelings, but take them with a grain of salt.