[Anoop Nain]

Sex play a big role in a relationship. Without sex your relationship is not complete. So talk to him about it. See sometime people don't like their work so their brain work like 2 people, 1 who is working right now and other is thinking about some hot girls and having sex with them. But it will make them to have sex more with their GF or wife instead of porn. May be issue is with you, give him a real pleasure during the sex and he will come for you next time instead of porn. Don't feel shy with him and it is batter if you spend lots of time during the sex not just 20 min for that you can use that technique :- you change the position after every 5 min or 1st 5 min you give him pleasure and after 5 min he give you the pleasure and repeat the cycle.

I hope it will help you.

[Rob1]

Well I am a guy and in no time would I ever choose porn over having sex with someone I love. This being said I do understand that not everyone is the same. However there is always another side to the story. You need to find the real truth from him before you walk down the aisle because it will not get any better after you are married. I wouldn't blame the problem on porn addiction until you learn the real truth. You have a self esteem issue because he has prioritized his job, cross fit, porn and then you. In reality you are lucky to have these problems before you get married. WHY? Because the old saying that a tiger never loses it's stripes applies to this situation. If he is capable of cross fit he is in good enough shape to wear you sexually out. Something else is going on. Perhaps he just doesn't have the balls to lay it on the line. You have a right to know. Perhaps it's time to tell him that you have something that is really bothering you and depending on the answers and actions it may be a deal breaker. Tell him what it is directly into his eyes and tell him you are going back home for a couple weeks and give him time to think about it.

[Anya Joe]

May be you are not doing enough for him, that's why he is watching porn.

[Ashlee T.]

May be you are not doing enough for him, that's why he is watching porn.

I am not sure how that's relevant. Many men watch porn no matter how many women they are sleeping with or how frequently. Many also cheat, no matter how often their partner is sleeping with them or what they're doing with them.

[atskitty2]

Anya Joe this post is nearly 5 years old.
But, I have to offer some feedback as well. For you to lay the blame with her for her partner's disinterest is unhelpful. If a man wants something different, or a woman, they need to have a discussion about that and work together to achieve satisfaction or decide to part ways.

[Popcorn&Candy]

I second Ashlee T.'s post. I'd say most men watch porn: whether in a relationship or not. It is a fact of life. I don't mean to sound blunt - and I know the thread is over 5 years old - but that is how I see it.

[MrMr]

Even as a guy id be concerned if my partner didn't watch porn.

I find Indian girls really attractive, i get over that fantasy by watching porn and its over when it's over.

My partner has her own fantasies.

We often watch porn together. And it's hot.

A close girl friend dates a guy with physical anxieties. She has told us that she helped him get over things by watching amateur porn with guys with a smaller disposition.

I have another friend who watches porn with well endowed men as a way of satisfying her fantasies.

Its all perfectly natural and healthy. Id hate to think that i was all my partner could fantasise about. It also helps to understand her physical desires

[MrMr]

To add to this, i know many women who say they have an issue with guys watching porn but have no problem saying how hot actors, musicians etc are.

When these women masturbate id hazard a guess they are fantasising about guys like that even though they aren't watching porn.

[Popcorn&Candy]

It is human nature.