[CHANDLERS WISH]

Every girl IS diff..cuz that doesnt work for me..or my friends.
If a guy asks me out without even knowing my name, that kinda weirds me out. Im like "wait a sec..u dont even know what to call me!"

The best way, "I" think, is to look at her body language, is it directed towards you? Is she smiling or leaning in and being or at least acting like she's interested in what you're saying? Is she laughing at your semi funny joke?
Cuz I'll tell you this, when I dont like a guy, I dont even really look at his eyes. i look everywhere else.

If she keeps eye contact, thats ONE way of knowing.

-The Orbess

See i agree with body language, very much so pertaining to what he/ she is thinking... So the eyes are somewhat important there, where is she looking?

I have written a few post replies on exactly that subject, so good call, every good call The Orbess....

CW

[maggieanne]

The most important thing to remember is that women are polar opposites from men. Women can easily fall in love with their best guy friend, because women do that. Men however see a woman, decide if he's attracted to her...if he is then he takes a chance and talks to her. If he plays his cards right (is a gentleman) he will at least get a couple dates. If he's not attracted to her he keeps looking. Am I right? There is really no changing a guys mind on that one. That's where men and women are different.

My man had a serious advantage with me because I wasn't interested in anything serious, but he kept on persisting (like a gentleman) and I eventually came to his penthouse for a party and we've been together ever since. I wasn't initially attracted to him, now that I'm in love with him I'm insanely attracted to him physically.

Hope that gave you some insight. Good luck with the girl!

Maggie Anne