[miffed23]

Once people hit about 25 years old, they are who they will be for the rest of their life. Barring any kind of significant emotional life changing event.

Really? So that means i have two years to buck up my ideas?

I would agree with the person who pointed at self-esteem as the huge issue in cheating. Cheating happens a lot of times I think because the cheater isn't getting something they want from a relationship. Doesn't mean they're right to want it (extra attention, for example), but that's the way the relationship crumbles....

Im not entirely sure about the self esteem issue - some women will cheat to make themselves feel better / sexier / wanted... but this issue is generally brought about by the man that they are with. Personally, i would suggest that the main reason women cheat (even though theyre getting the love, care and commitment at home)...is because theyre not receiving the lust, passion, wildness side of a relationship... i cant imagine a woman wanting to cheat with the intention of becoming emotionally attached to the other man.

Also, as a woman i think you have a significant 'make or break point' where your morals decide which way youre going to swing. If you choose to cheat and get away with it, im a great believer that you'll continue to cheat. Not sure if this rings true with men?

[Guest]

yep, pretty much!