[SxyRN]

well those are good answers....it sounds to me like he is! i think about him all the time ....we've been together 4 years and i keep a pic of him by my bed....since we don't live together it's the next best thing! i'm just a child of divorce so my view of marriage isn't as positive as most believe.
he would be a wonderful father and he loves me, i love him too....guess i'm just scared because i never thought i would find some one that can put up with me and loves me for who i am

[miffed23]

he would be a wonderful father and he loves me, i love him too....guess i'm just scared because i never thought i would find some one that can put up with me and loves me for who i am

I think youve just summed up the answer to your question

Someone that you can see yourself growing old with. Someone whom, if you take away all the passion, you can still be in love with. Someone that when they go away, be it for a day or a year, you still love when they return and youre tummy aches when theyre gone.