[Guest]

please don't follow through on this. he loves you but can't find $500 to be with you?

you are being used! Tell him it's over and find somone who loves you for you, not for a visa.

[UMMINGBYRD]

Littlegirl...

Grow up stop being a little girl and quit being lost. Please please dont go through with this. ..... My cousin did the same thing... With an egyptian..... Although it does not matter if he were timbuktu, east tooleyville or (edited by mod) egypt. It is time to take a big dose of open your eyes not your pocket-book. Even if he were some guy from the midwest, if he is going out with his friends every nite... Then he aint marriage material anyway... We on this fourm beg you...dont do it... U have an oppurtunity at this point to save face since you havent met him and he dosent live here......

[littlegirllost]

Grow up stop being a little girl and quit being lost. Please please dont go through with this. ..... My cousin did the same thing... With an egyptian..... Although it does not matter if he were timbuktu, east tooleyville or (edited by mod) egypt. It is time to take a big dose of open your eyes not your pocket-book. Even if he were some guy from the midwest, if he is going out with his friends every nite... Then he aint marriage material anyway... We on this fourm beg you...dont do it... U have an oppurtunity at this point to save face since you havent met him and he dosent live here......

I know you were trying to help, but my user name has nothing to do with anything, so please do not tell me to stop being lost. Just so you all know I am not going through with it. Thank you all for your help.

[WildChild]

Good for you, you won't regret getting out of this!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

(Threader) Well!!! Can't say your name now after that comment!!!!

As I said, it takes time, thanks for coming to this site to ask the questions, get the "opinions" way them up and make a decision...

Obviously, other things have occured and you've seen more of a warning sign since as this was a few months ago, October.

Things aren't always black and white, that's why we have grey so we can stay in that colour when in doubt to determine.

Take Care, look forward to seeing you here again on something else.

CW