[Fatin]

loool yeah .. and glad to hear that u got ur eyes opened to this .. and you most welcome my dear if you need anything im here ..

[Guest]

thank so much!

[AlleyWay]

The most IMPORTANT thing about being in a relationship is being friends. I see my S/O everyday if not we are on the phone. It's so cool because we can just talk about anything from our relationship to why is Steven Segal a horrible actor. Being with my S/O isn't a job it's a pleasure.

[ThexMrs]

The man I started seeing was working two full time jobs. He worked from 7a- 4p and then again from 6p - 11p but then it changed to 5p - 11p for summer hours and this was 7 days a week. When it was 6p - 11p he would come over between the two hour break that he had before his next job. We'd spend a little over an hour together and we did this a few days in a row each week. Once that hour was taken away from him he would have to take a day off of work to spend time with me or he would come over after work and stay the night. I ended up going out of town for a month total (2 weeks the first time and then two weeks the second time) in a two month period. We ended up not seeing each other for 6 weeks because the conflicts in schedule. Now he is working one full time job but his appointments are never at the same time. He'll call me up randomly without any notice and ask to come over. It's really tough because a lot of the time I am not available. He also works one day a week (Sunday) at another job. He said to give him six months and everything would become normal for us. I see him now maybe once a week. He tells me he is in love with me and he doesn't want to lose me. He texts me every single day and says how much he misses me. He's a very sweet man. I just don't know... When we started dating I felt like I was in a LDR because of his schedule. It's really hard.

[Guest]

seeing someone with that schedule can be hard. my issue is that we see each other all the time. im not complaining or anything like that; but sometimes i do wish that we would spend some alone time.i guess its my fault for not saying anything. i just dont want it to come off wrong. and when we do spend some time apart and not see each other; when we do see each other it is great. there's no drama.

[Fatin]

hunny !! its ok to have ur time alone or like what i call it "me time" but it doesnt have to be for spa or anything .. and i can understand that you u want some more drama in ur relationship like u said .. u know 4 this reason i broke up with my ex almosr a year ago bcos we don't do anythin .. all we do is go 2 the college after it go to lunch and then he drop me off and that was it for like 6 months .. but how about this why can't you start the drama??

[Guest]

hunny !! its ok to have ur time alone or like what i call it "me time" but it doesnt have to be for spa or anything .. and i can understand that you u want some more drama in ur relationship like u said .. u know 4 this reason i broke up with my ex almosr a year ago bcos we don't do anythin .. all we do is go 2 the college after it go to lunch and then he drop me off and that was it for like 6 months .. but how about this why can't you start the drama??

i meant that as no bad drama. like we get along great. and i like that.

[Fatin]

so u want like bad drama and fight and all that right??

[Guest]

i'll clear things up a bit....

what i meant is when we see each other after not seeing each other awhile; it is good. because there are no arguments; no issues. i DONT want drama/issues or arguements. and it seems that when we take time apart from each other; even if its for a day or two everything flows smoothly.

[Fatin]

and ur complaining about that??