[CHANDLERS WISH]

I completely missed one of your posts dang...

So if you think that he may have said " minding my own business" meaning, no I am not cheating or anything, quit with that thought..

What's your six sense thinking?

He sounds magical and 1 year is a long time and if all these obsticles is the reason why it is as it is at present, do you think that maybe your just really missing him?

CW

[Ahryin]

I guess it could be that...I don't think I have ever just really missed some one. I normally try and stay detached. My sixth sense is telling me he is dating other women aka cheating. Not saying he is sleeping with them but seeing them. He was showing me pics on the phone the last time he came to see me and when I was on my last house pic he grabbed the phone up soooo fast and put it away. I'm not sure what that was and maybe i'm just looking for things? I dont know CW ... I just dont know

[CHANDLERS WISH]

.Intuition. is a real thing....

I can't sugar coat your last statement.

was on my last house pic he grabbed the phone up soooo fast and put it away.

Your just going to either converse with him that you prefer that he walks if ever he wants to date others, have respect for you in that regard, through the course in a general conversation OR keep those thoughts in your mind, let them manifest.

I think I like being single seriously..............

[Ahryin]

He knows how I feel about cheating! Trust me he knows! I'm that female that gives you enough rope to hang yourself. I'm going to play it by ear. he stuck by me through this accident so it would be hard to just dismiss him...plus I'm not ready for that. At least I can honestly admit that

[WildChild]

Why can't your sister and her children share the house and help care for grandma? Then you would have your apt free as a refuge or get away place?

If you aren't the type who is generally given to jealousy, then listen to your little voice, it is picking up on cues you aren't conscously aware of. That doesn't make him guilty but be careful - especially with sexual relations.

I hope you are making a good continued recovery from this accident. Make your own health your top priority!

[Ahryin]

For the most part that what my issues is...I just keep going. Regardless of the pain regardless of my own personal set backs I put my children first, followed by my mother, my siblings and myself. My sister is not my mothers child. They do not get along. Also my sister has her two children and her fiance. I pay the rent they pay the rest of the bills. Its rent control the apt has been in my family since the 80s! So the rent is under 200 a month but is also in the projects which is why I choose to no longer live there. I refuse to give it up because its 2bedrooms and who knows what will ever happen.

This morning he text messaged me asking me what happened to me yesterday. I didn't respond to him when he messaged me. I responded "I figured you were still minding your own business and didn't have time to mind mine" Hour later I asked him if we are going to work out together after I get this vehicle. I'm supposed to look at it possibly purchase it if not this week next week he responded...NO I will still be minding my business. Which I'm not really sure how to take it but I'm just going to let it go. If I am where he is meant to be he will find a way. I don't chase men! I did that when I was younger learned my lesson and no matter how much i love him no man is worth it especially if they don't realize what i'm worth

[Ahryin]

by the way after he said that I didn't even respond! It hurts dont get me wrong but I live what I preach! I don't play games I say what I mean and mean what I say!

[WildChild]

Sounds like he thinks he's being clever or cute. I wouldn't like this much either.

[Ahryin]

Yea..well now he wont stop texting me. As I stated before he is shopping for a SUV for me. I can't do it because my job does not afford me the time. I am constantly on conf calls, going in and out of meetings or answering emails etc. I'm always doing something. I have three freaking phones in my office not including my cell phone. LOL Which is another reason why I love this site! It is like a release for me.

My point is he is making slick comments about getting the SUV and he will clean it for me, put tinted windows on it and we can "bless it"

Did I mention the sex is GREAT.....hmmmmmm just incase let me re-iterate...MIND BLOWING...OH MY SWEET LORD THANK YOU...I DIDNT KNOW MY LEG COULD LIFT THAT WAY....WAIT ARE YOU ACTUALLY LIFTING MY WHOLE BODY LIKE I'M A FEATHER...OK YES SURE I WILL TURN AROUND...I DIDN'T KNOW I HAD A SPOT THERE ...GREAT!!!!

[WildChild]

And yet you said you haven't orgasmed with intercourse?