[Ahryin]

No but its mental for me. Sex still feels very good..I climax but I can not release...follow me?

[Ahryin]

Imagine being on a rollercoaster going through the curves feeling the wind blow on your face your going fast and it's exciting...fun..great..then you start to go up the ramp the anticipation builds...you can't wait to get to the top because you know the drop is going to be great....well I never get to the drop!

[WildChild]

So you need to learn to let go. With enough build up, release becomes inevitable. Can you cum when self pleasuring?

[Ahryin]

Yes I can...(smiles to herself and writes down seduce myself toooonight on her things to do today check list)

I had some situations when I was a young child that has effected me which is actually what draws me to sex (meaning learning about different techniques and technical as well as spirtual emotional aspects of intimacy) I know it is me which is what I have tried to explain to him dont smack me but I faked it with him. If he ever found out he would be devistated

[lizzy_09]

Just be careful he's not cheating on you anymore. It's quiet scary if he picks up anything from other women and infects you.