[caterpillar79]

P.S.

What would make you decide to give or not to give someone a second chance?

Because this question made me think....

[rcoreyus]

Whether they really regretted their mistake, and whether the situation had changed so that they wouldn't do the same thing again.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

The effort they put in to convince me that it was a terrible mistake, not by words, rather by actions and consistancy.

CW

[caterpillar79]

I agree with both of you guys. And since it's a second time, I'd me laying out ground rules and ask what he/she puts on the table to make this one work.

[Guest]

family..yes,and i have...because if you cant rely on your family..who can you rely on?
friends and sig others not as much. i have a very low tolerance for bull*hit.
so many times i have talked to a friend about their bad situation,and given them options/ideas how to get out of it and they ignore it..wether its a bad relationship/money issues/etc etc...some people just love the drama,but i cant stand it.
so many times a guy has cheated and dumped me,only to find the grass wasnt greener and tried coming back,i have no tolerance for that either. once a cheater,always a cheater. im a ed good woman,men have only 1 chance to see that however.
life is too short to waste with dirtbags.