[Dollface007]

WOW thanks everyone for the feedback, not one person said to tell. Where as all my friends said tell. Its good to have an outside perspective thats why I love Women's health... All of you said it perfectly....and to the T why I wouldnt want to tell...the only thing that was pulling me twords telling is the fact that he could go back to college and start with a clean slate, also that the baby would know his real father. Also alot of other factors s/a his parents are well off and the other guy doesn't have alot of money at all so it is obvious that the girl chose the guy that has the $...I just found it so ironic out of the like 3,000+ people that attend my big school that I would so happen to meet this girls ex best friend... it was just so ironic and also the fact that my friend gave me a tarot card reading after I found out and my card of the day was pregnancy... so many signs its wierd... Also it is not a matter of me having feelings for him again, because I don't I have already begun seeing someone else, I just have felt bad lately because the things that I know could change the course of an innocent life, I have a soft spot in my heart for the child and all children in general and I just felt guilty knowing all this....

[sourpuss]

I agree to a certain extent but also feel that now you're out of the picture and should stay out. Really it's no longer your business, obligation, or responsibility what happens with him. Additionally once the baby is born the only potential difference is that this new child's life might start out rocky which I think is a sad thing.

Let these people work out their own lives and karma and you go on with yours and be happy. I wouldn't send any kind of note or really have any more contact with them if possible because it's really no longer your business.

Exactly. Could not have said it better.

[Miya]

the baby would know his real father...

I just have felt bad lately because the things that I know could change the course of an innocent life, I have a soft spot in my heart for the child and all children in general and I just felt guilty knowing all this....

Just another thought about this though...if he treats the child and in all way shape and form as his own (which it very well may be) then this WOULD be the child's real father. The things you "may" know could be detrimental to not just this child but everyone involved. Again, I think it's best you just stay out of it all and let their fates be what they may.