[Rebecca[[Diane]]]

i suppose but i still think hes very immature and needs to grow up.
like he wil bite my cheeks ded hard coz he finks its cute but it hurts an wen i ask him to stop he wont stop.
lik ive told him over an over to stop doing it completely coz it really hurts an he just wont listen.
i dont fink its fair on me if he tells me to stop doing something to him i WILL stop!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well that's a fair call...

See if we say no it is no, if we say stop it is stop so you put this down to immaturity and he's 19 and needs to grow up

Seems nothing you say though sinks in, he finds it all funny and that's it, and when he saw you cry he did it to himself to compensate to say "it's alright".. I don't think he knows how to show his feelings truth, be known.


It's like he is a jerk in a nice way, tries to laugh it off by using himself but really just sees kids being kids, not relationship.

Maybe this is what you have to teach him, your not kids mucking around your his girlfriend and there are emotions. This is a hard thing for guys of any age to get, emotions of a woman.

CW

[happy ending]

i didnt realise he was only 18, then he's not really immature, he is 18!

[AloneNtheCrowd]

IMO...

Normally I'm not so bold as I don't want to steer someone down the wrong path... buuuuut I say drop him! Your not his toy to poke and humiliate until you cry, he doesn't respect you enought to stop after you say stop again and again? No way, he doesn't want a girfriend he wants someone to pick on and laught at...you're not that someone.

[WildChild]

Darlin you may not think so but 18 is young. He may or may not be immature but he is certainly a jerk. Tell him good bye forever. He doesn't respect you, he doesn't care if he hurts you and he doesn't understand NO.
Tell him good bye and no looking back.

[Rebecca[[Diane]]]

i dont know what to say now =|

i wish he did understand a girls feelings.
ok i like some of his immaturity.
but wen it goes too far an i want him to stop an he doesnt thats when it hits me and i will go off on one.


like i sed tho. i dont wanna give him up coz i do dearly love him.
just wish hed stop wen i ask!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well, how's the relationship otherwise?

Does he do special little things for you, celebrate your birthday with you, buy you something nice, take you out, treat you well in general.

Curious.

By the way:-

Hun, he's old enough to know the "NO" word and the realisation that you cry over somethings he does..

[Rebecca[[Diane]]]

well yee he does treat me occasionally.
but hes quite stingey with hismoney coz he has a job wer he works like ne eery 2 weeks.
an he needs his student loan for his music equipment for uni and he has other things to pay for like he has adog an he pays house rent an that.

but yee he does celebrate my bday with me an stuff

[CHANDLERS WISH]

So then this is just a pet peev that you have to stand your ground on then seeing as he does treat you properly other than this..

CW

[Rebecca[[Diane]]]

thanx for all ur help