[WildChild]

LOL Not a bad idea but could be embarassing in public.

[Texinator]

I just know that there is no way in hel* he was like this in his past relationships because (and I will say it) no self respecting woman would put up with it unless they were just in it for the sex as well.

Maybe they thought Jared was the best they could do and that he was better than nothing. Maybe they thought they would be able to change him into a better man. Who knows.

Good job on deleting his contact information.

[ThexMrs]

Happy - That's funny. His ringtone is Mase and Total. (Tell me what you want from me, take a look at what you see, let me know if this right here, is something you could have for years) He doesn't even call so I don't even know why he has a ringtone.

Thanks Tex... I'm super lame though. I found his number in a notebook and text him. I told him it was his last chance. I have a cocktail party to go to on Dec 5th and I said that he had to come, no excuses or I was done. No response so... I guess I'm done.

[Texinator]

Why do you keep trying?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Grrrrrr.....

You want a date beautiful? You have over 2 weeks to find one.. Go, get, do not pass go, kick Jarred to the curb.

See, your such a romantic soul, you listen to his music and assume that must be the way he thinks Maybe, it's the way he "WANTS" to think but doesn't have the capability.

And, this guy hasn't ever taken you out, you think someone as attractive as you can't replace him with someone that will?

Ahha.

[ThexMrs]

Why do you keep trying?

I don't know... Because I really do care about him. It was stupid but I thought it would work. It so didn't. He texted me while I was grocery shopping and said, "Hate me or love me, I don't like parties." So I said, "It's not about what you like. It's about you loving me enough to put your feelings aside for one night." He never responded. I hate that I keep trying. I'm better than this.

Yes, CW... I know. I only invited him because I wanted to actually do a group thing. All of my friends will be there and I wanted him to meet them. Truth be told, I'd probably have more fun without him there. I don't really want a date that night. I want free range on my actions. It's such a fun party. It happens at my girlfriend's house every first week in December. Oh well... I did my best.

[Texinator]

Let's say Jared were to change magically. Highly unlikely but let's say it does happen. You two develop a normal romantic relationship then.

What would happen when Marty tells you he can move to Oregon?

[ThexMrs]

Let's say Jared were to change magically. Highly unlikely but let's say it does happen. You two develop a normal romantic relationship then.

What would happen when Marty tells you he can move to Oregon?

I've gone over this scenario a million times because at one point (over the summer) everything was wonderful with Jared. Marty and I were just rebuilding our relationship. I was torn. I wasn't sure that if Marty moved here that I would leave Jared. That doubt has now faded completely. If Jared were to change, great but honestly... I think that Jared is just an inconvenient, convenience. (If you know what I mean) He's here and when we're together I love the time we spend but that's not enough. Jared is a 2 on a scale of 1 - 10. Marty is a 1,000. Marty is everything that Jared is not and more. He goes above and beyond what he has to. He's there for me, he loves me, he treats me great, he hurts when I hurt. He's wonderful.

I just got off of the phone with Jared. He called me. We talked for maybe, MAYBE 5 minutes and he got off of the phone. He said, "I don't want to talk about this right now. I'm not in a good mood." I said, "You never want to talk about it." Whatever... He just doesn't care. He cares more about himself than anyone else. I think I am finally ready to just let it go. He continually proves to be everything I don't want. I just wish I didn't care about him.

If anything, he'll be sex. That's it. I really feel like with what I am trying to do with Marty, sex shouldn't be in the picture though. Sure, it's a basic human want/need but I know how Marty feels about it and I don't want to hurt him. He's not hurting me. (Not to say that if he was, I would)

Today Marty said, "If I don't have a job by summer then I'll move out there." I don't know if he meant that or if he was just trying to appease my mother. (She had asked me to ask him that earlier in the day) It doesn't matter really... He has until October of next year and then I'm done with him if nothing has changed. He even agreed to the timeline.

Anyways, that's it... I'm a little upset but it's better to be upset now than a year from now I suppose.

[mr.mansview]

If anything, he'll be sex. That's it. I really feel like with what I am trying to do with Marty, sex shouldn't be in the picture though

then you are not cutting of contact and you will eventually be back where you started with him.. he will still be getting from you what he gets now and you will be getting even less from him than what you are getting now..if that's possible (shakes head)

[ThexMrs]

then you are not cutting of contact and you will eventually be back where you started with him.. he will still be getting from you what he gets now and you will be getting even less from him than what you are getting now..if that's possible (shakes head)

Do you plan on stepping into his shoes?

I said that sex shouldn't be in the picture because of Marty. So, more than likely, I won't have sex with Jared. I care a lot about Marty and if it were to hurt him to know that I was having sex with Jared, I wouldn't do it.