[mdraven380]

Well already after only a little over a month I think this relationship is over. All the red flags are popping up. His ex badgered him al weekend saying that he is paying more attention to me then he is their daughter. So now he is blowing me off. He hasn't said he wanted to end it but I'm ready to end it before he does and I get hurt again. He is already becoming controling and verbaly abusive. Saying I wear to much makeup and when I couldn't work my phone telling me how stupid I am. More than just that. This is a guy who also said after less than a month that he "Loves Me" ?
I think I picked a bad one again. Plus I'm sick of sitting at the kareoke bar with all his ex girlfriend texting him and giving me the evil eye.
I really don't care at this point wheather or not I'm alone for Christmas.
Also his mother is a pest. Always calling me and in our buisness. Asking me where we are gonna live when we get married! I said to her we've only bee together a month!
I don't think I'll even have to end it because I think it is alredy over as on today.

[LanaBear]

You are SO beautiful and definitely don't deserve to be treated like that. Nobody does. If he doesn't end it, you should. Wait for a guy that deserves everything you have to give. If you are alone for a while, that is completely alright, but don't settle for anything less than you deserve. A guy who is controlling and verbally abusive definitely isn't it.

[caterpillar79]

Sweetie, you are a very beautiful woman, inside - out. Go on - WALK! You deserve better. The holiday season is far happier for you if it is free of verbal abuse and control. You will hurt for a moment, but you'll get better. You are a strong woman.

It has been known that we attract the person that we are. Have you noticed a choice pattern you've had in the past? You don't have to answer. This is just a random thought.

[Texinator]

Tell Mr. Pencil Peepee to go take a hike. You deserve much better than that kind of treatment.

[sourpuss]

Count your lucky stars...as you run away from this man! Sounds like you're dodging a bullet here.

[WildChild]

Sound like good riddence. You certainly deserve better. You know the saying? Every jerk you date is one less jerk you marry. Cross this one off the list and find a better one.

[caterpillar79]

... Every jerk you date is one less jerk you marry...

This sounds interesting, WC! (you thinking what I'm thinking?)

[CHANDLERS WISH]

What I find "beautiful" about this thread and yeah you know me, I think differently sometimes, is that you can "see", you can "finally see", how does that make you feel?

You caught the baggage, the control, the verbal abuse, all within a few weeks..

Sure, you think your back where you started, but your not.. You now know "what" you want and don't want and won't "settle".

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Hey, I'm taking of for a few days alone on NYE but I guarantee you, I will have the sexiest "ladylike" clothes, bathers, and I'll hit the bars and politely, ladylikely (is there such a word?) flirt

So, take this as a new lease on life and be happy...

CW

[happy ending]

i dont want to sound superficial here, but i just saw your photo and girl you are so hot!!! stop wasting time with this man, and find someone who appreciates you and doesnt have so much baggage, christmas is just another day!! better to be with someone you love even if that someone is yourself.

[GlitterAndStuds]

Man, the exes just never go away, do they? Well, it's definitely a good thing that you realize he's being a jack*** and that you deserve WAY better than that. You've already been through enough this year, you don't need all this too. I agree with everyone else that you should not feel bad about walking away from this.

You're being very realistic about it too, knowing that you're not about to rush things after a month. There's nothing wrong with taking some "you time" and enjoying yourself without some silly guy