[Ashlee T.]

I'd rather be alone any day than to ever again be with someone who tries to make me feel badly about myself. Or someone who is constantly contacting an ex. Disrespectful. Degrading. Wrong.

The good part is that you're recognizing the red flags, and recognizing that you deserve better. Tell him to take a hike and stay gone. Get out, have a good time, spend time with girlfriends and remember this Christmas how truly BLESSED you are to not be with this man....and to be everything that you are.

[the wench]

get owt nowwwwwwww......run like the wind lol

[mdraven380]

Thanks for all of your support.
He did a 360 on me. Never texted me yesterday and then when he did cal he said he has been neglecting things at home and couldn't see me. He called last night when I was at my friend and told me to call him when I go home but there was no answer and I haven't heard from him at all today. I'm assuming we are done and if he calls I'm not answering.
I do have a patteren when it comes to pickin men but I plan on changing that after 30 years of .

[caterpillar79]

True colors shining through!

You don't have to put up with his cr*p! I admire your strength - one that I didn't have when I was in that same situation.

Is there a way for you to "formally" get closure on this? If not, then just walk and enjoy your new life!

Keep us posted...

Let's start a turning - over a new leaf thread, shall we?!

[mdraven380]

True colors shining through!

You don't have to put up with his cr*p! I admire your strength - one that I didn't have when I was in that same situation.

Is there a way for you to "formally" get closure on this? If not, then just walk and enjoy your new life!

Keep us posted...

Let's start a turning - over a new leaf thread, shall we?!

I have not spoken to him since last night at 8pm. He never answered my call and he never called today or texted me. I know him, he is waiting for me to text him something rotten or call and beg him or chase him and I refuse.
I left some things at his house but I'll just go buy new stuff and leave it there as a reminder of what he just lost.
I will feel lonely again but I have friends.
I pretty much just feel numb again.
If you reopen a wound enough times and pour salt into it, it becomes numb.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

If you reopen a wound enough times and pour salt into it, it becomes numb.

Are you seriously looking at the photos your posting on this Forum of yourself?

Are you seriously, listing to the spoken words you write on the positive sides on your posts?

Date... long enough to see red flags/patterns before entering into a relationship and have fun with it, because you KNOW, what to look for mdraven and don't look at it as years, seeing as I am older than you

Just "look" for those signs and know whether to start or not to start, and you'll be fine.

Your beautiful inside and out, so don't forget it and remember, you saw things this time.

And, also remember that YOU DON'T NEED anyone in your life, YOU WANT SOMEONE, there is a big diffence.

CW

[mdraven380]

Are you seriously looking at the photos your posting on this Forum of yourself?

Are you seriously, listing to the spoken words you write on the positive sides on your posts?

Date... long enough to see red flags/patterns before entering into a relationship and have fun with it, because you KNOW, what to look for mdraven and don't look at it as years, seeing as I am older than you

Just "look" for those signs and know whether to start or not to start, and you'll be fine.

Your beautiful inside and out, so don't forget it and remember, you saw things this time.

And, also remember that YOU DON'T NEED anyone in your life, YOU WANT SOMEONE, there is a big diffence.

CW

Thanks CW,
He came to my house today and said he was sorry. We had a long talk about things. I just wonder if I'm to sensitive. I told him the things he did that were bothering me. He said he didn't call me because he thought I was made at him but for a different reason than why I was really upset.
I'm gonna see him but pull back some and go do my own thing. I told him that I'm not giving up my house and I just want some companionship.
So I will slow down now and just see what happens.