[CHANDLERS WISH]

I agree with Tex, don't add fear into this because that is what will let you down.

15 months of feeling like this tells me that you have the right ingredients and that's the main thing.

If you two can be best friends, good lovers, and communicate and share your inner most thoughts then your soul mates, simply put....

Keep that and never stray from that pattern, as that's the key to a successful relationship.

Always make time to laugh, to do something childish together, something romantic together, something passionate together and remember, "if it's not broken, don't fix it".

CW

[atexasgirl]

Ive been with my husband two years married for one. Thing between us have been wonderful since the day we met. I've been in a few serious relationships and I think the way to keep it new is just listen to each other and always be honest with each other. As long as you just live in the moment and take each day as another wonderful gift you have been given. There is no reason the bottom should fall out as long as you remember what you have now and keep it going.

[carolina28]

Psychology tells us, that it is about 2-2.5 years. That isn't to say, that is when the relationship ends, just when the good deep stuff starts. Communication is key, as well as empathy. I think a lot of people lose that. Everyone comes from somewhere, and people act out of that place. If we are able to understand, and forgive, it will take us far. I think living a great life together, as well as a great life apart. Keep great friends, nurture your family relationships, and learn to fight fair. Best of luck and congrats on finding someone that you love, to share your life with!!