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  • Texinator
    Veteran Member
    • Sep 2009
    • 5556

    Doesn't sound like much of a friend..

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    • Mes T
      Veteran Member
      • Oct 2009
      • 2678

      Oh I totally missed that this was about someone else's friend and not yours, but yeah ok.

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      • newhere808
        Veteran Member
        • Dec 2009
        • 541

        It'd be one thing if something came up and plans were changed. It's quite another if the persons seems so blah about it.

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        • p3375
          Veteran Member
          • Jan 2010
          • 375

          stuff happens, people forget appointments etc etc, but where's the cell phone in all this?? No call to say 'oops, sorry'? Seems like a deliberate blow off. Treat appropriately!
          P

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          • KMonte85
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2009
            • 3303

            friends that treat you like that should be treated likewise...

            they blow you off for something better regularly or don't return texts/calls.. then they are not serious about the friendship and are just "fair weather friends" so act accordingly. If someone wants to stay in contact with a person like that fine, but don't make set-in-stone plans.. if something better comes along, tell them "oops soory! let's reschedule." and move on...

            or just quit calling them and making plans with them.

            Whatever's easier...

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            • kristalyn_04
              Veteran Member
              • Oct 2009
              • 2164

              I agree with what everyone else is saying. Think about it... what's the definition of a "friend" to you? Does this person fulfill it? I think not.

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              • Guest

                and the roller coaster ride starts again!

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                • Goodgirl93
                  Veteran Member
                  • Sep 2009
                  • 2634

                  Aww I'm sorry sweetie! You don't have to put up with it though...And I'm sure you know that.You deserve better friends.

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                  • Guest

                    Originally posted by Goodgirl93
                    Aww I'm sorry sweetie! You don't have to put up with it though...And I'm sure you know that.You deserve better friends.
                    thanks hun. in a lot of ways she is a good friend. it's just the whole not returning or acknowledging email thing that drives me batty.

                    I know I am obsessive compulsive, but if someone sends me an email, i at least acknowledge it!


                    ##%$##%^&*%##!^)!&^!$!#!%

                    sigh....

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                    • CHANDLERS WISH
                      • Mar 2008
                      • 22440

                      Depends.

                      A nature of obsessive compuslive, is a "lenghty" email, one of a million questions to answer, which needs time to take in and reply in the right manner.

                      I would say to you to quit emailing.... it seems to be upsetting you more, each time you do, with not the response your after, breathe and leave.
                      PUT A LITTLE [B]'LIKE'[/B] IN MY SOUL!

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