[mdraven380]

I'm sorry for all the pain you are in and I completely understand.
I have been through dozens of these types of endings and I can tell you the it does feel like the end of the world but it is temporary.

That is sometimes the only thing that keeps me going is to tell myself that the painful situation I am in at the moment is temporary.
Nothing stays the same,Ever.
No matter what everything changes day by day.
I don't see her relationship lasting very long.
So just sit back and wait for it to crumble and when it does tell her not to come crying to you.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Not to be rude, but does her parents know about this guy? Seriously, what parent would be happy that their 16 year old daughter is being "seduced" by a 25 year old Man?

I do believe that age is irrelevant, but sceptical when a 25 year old chooses a 16 year old, for her "inner self" whilst I have seen it happen and can see it's real, most of the time, it's not the case, it's for his own glory, he has a young lady, who is practically un-touched, it's a mental thing not for her inner self, so I'm betting in the near future he's going to break her heart.

And, if your there, you might just be the person she falls back on, says sorry to and resumes her relationship with..

Have faith and trust in your love if it's not / wasn't one sided.

CW

[Anon_1990]

I'd take her in with open arms if she ran back.

[Goodgirl93]

Not to be rude, but does her parents know about this guy? Seriously, what parent would be happy that their 16 year old daughter is being "seduced" by a 25 year old Man?


CW

Hey hey now,are we forgetting Gigi's first love here? That's our ages mum!
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Anyhow,Awww i'm sorry Anon.I truly feel for you. If it helps any,being 16 myself,Once you fall in love with that someone,It's pretty impossible to get them out of your mind completely,and definitely impossible to get them out of your heart.She hasn't forgotten you,and she never will,no matter what she may tell you.The little things like songs,pictures,ect. will set off memories for her of the two of you,and it cant be easy.I am still getting over a break-up myself(COMPLICATED),But even though its been a few weeks,I don't want to move on,although he tells me i should.It's hard i know,but i PROMISE you,it will get better.I know it sounds so awful right now,and you don't believe it,but just please remember that in time you will heal.

Go out,get your mind off of it all.Let loose,Don't sit and drown in the good memories that eventually cause you to drown in your tears.Just sitting here thinking of memories puts a frown to my face,but i try all i can to keep myself occupied til the pain goes away.Things will be okay love,that is not only a promise,but its a fact.Take care.

[Anon_1990]

Well, 'm 19 myself. She is the 16 year old!

But Yeah, i still feel pretty bad. Im getting better though

[Mes T]

I'm 23 and teach 16 year olds... I couldn't imagine ever dating one, much less being in love with one, much less being 2 years older than I am NOW and doing it!

I can understand a 16 year old going for a 25 year old. But a 25 year old going for a 16 year old?? You really gotta wonder what goes through a person's head like that...

Just had to get that off my chest. Yikes.

Anon, stay strong. I have a feeling the bulk of your love life is still ahead of you, and that's a comforting thought.

[Anon_1990]

I know, its just the pain sometimes.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

[QUOTE=Goodgirl93;177542]Hey hey now,are we forgetting Gigi's first love here? That's our ages mum!
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I do believe that age is irrelevant, but sceptical when a 25 year old chooses a 16 year old, for her "inner self" whilst I have seen it happen and can see it's real,

Young Gigi Re-read.... You were chosen for your inner self yes? And, I said I've seen it happen....

This 25 year old guy has this 16 year old girl "in person" there, in front of him, hasn't had time to get to know her at all, therefore, can't possibly know her "innerself"..

Feel better now?

CW

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'm 23 and teach 16 year olds... I couldn't imagine ever dating one, much less being in love with one, much less being 2 years older than I am NOW and doing it!

I can understand a 16 year old going for a 25 year old. But a 25 year old going for a 16 year old?? You really gotta wonder what goes through a person's head like that...

Just had to get that off my chest. Yikes.

Anon, stay strong. I have a feeling the bulk of your love life is still ahead of you, and that's a comforting thought.

Haha, Gigi's going to get you

Actually, I know where your coming from and I feel it too with this particular thread Anon.

The difference being as I pointed out to Gigi, it's the fact that he wouldn't, couldn't possibly have had the chance to get to know her inner self, took it slow, didn't ask her out, you know a man...

It's that he has done so... Sure, he may be mentally 19 and you may be mentally 25 and she may be mentally 19.. I can see that picture.

I just don't see this picture.. Call me a White Witch, as people do, but I would almost place a hundred dollar bet with you that he is using her, or he is excited that he has a young chick, so to speak, something...

And, she will be crying and will need you....

Stay strong.

CW

[Anon_1990]

Well, they "tried" to go out about a year or two back, but apparently it fell through, but he always had feelings for her. Likewise, ive liked her for a long time