[tinkerbell930]

Thanks Kaylar, I wish we could move away. My husband adores his father and would never move away from him. He even loves his mother even though she plays games with his life. He gets mad at me if I tell him he needs to set boundaries for that situation, that he will regret it later if he doesn't take care of it now. He keeps saying he will, but doesn't. It is all because he wants to see his father all the time.
I pray that someday we will be able to move away. This is my husbands home town and he has no desire to move away. I hate where we live. I miss the ocean. I want to move close to the ocean and away from all the garbage that is my husbands life!!! I love him so much...we are great together...it's just the family and the ex's that I would love to be far away from! People do that all the time, why can't we?

[kaylar]

What would happen if you or he were offered
a good job elsewhere?

[tinkerbell930]

Well, he owns his own business here (of course) and if I wanted to take a job elsewhere, I would have to go alone. I don't think he will ever leave....as long as his dad is alive (and NO, I don't wish him to die AT ALL). His dad is a good man.....they just hang out and talk WAY TOO MUCH, and then of course the mother situation makes it ten times worse! I feel so stuck, but wish we could do something to get rid of that girl and the way his mother is about it all. That will have to come from my husband! It is long past time, the kid is over 2 years old now and the games have been going on that whole time. I met him when the girl was 8 months pregnant, he told me about it, but he also said it could be 3 other guys kid (we prayed about it, but it ended up being his) and the games have been going ever since!