[stressed]

I don't know, but such a gesture can also be interpreted as "look at her instead, I'm too busy to be available 24/7 for you". If my guy would give me a poster of a half naked dude with a perfect body that's how I'd feel.

It may be just me, but I find it sad that there are millions of people out there who are in love with someone but fantasize about celebrities. It's not about "variation" or "appreciation of beauty". It's just sad. Because they rather fantasize about something they will never have, something fake and imaginary, instead of fantasizing about one of the million things they can do with their SO and LIVE it. Percentage-wise, most posters claim that porn is normal and acceptable, but I just wish I saw more posters encouraging real life experiences, encouraging others to drop porn for a while and live their fantasies. It's not that porn is evil, but the easier we let it take over the further away we drift from being sexually happy with our partners.

[Mes T]

Hmm. While I don't enjoy the thought of my boyfriend appreciating a celebrity here and there, I do so myself... I'll see some cute guy on TV and go "oooooo ". Same way as I might appreciate a baby kitten or a flute or a shrub or a teddy bear or a fridge magnet or some body lotion...

It's all part of being aware of life, of your surroundings. Nothing more.

But having said that yeah I would probably pass on the poster-of-someone-else thing as well.

[hizenberg]

get rid of him, sorry to be blunt but trust me this guy is just likie mine,....a******* lol and im leaving mine a.s.a.p. sorry to be blunt