[Goodgirl93]

Considering her love for babies, maybe Gigi has strong motherly instincts and feels she needs to 'nurture and protect' him during his difficult time. But I'd worry when there is a romantic relationship and one party looks to the other as a 'parent' of sorts.

It might be that,i'm not sure,but i wanted to help as much as i could,or just to be there when he needed me,and he would push me away wich i understood to a certain point,then he got bitter and took it out on me often and when i would get ticked off at something he said he would turn into a huge jacka*s and expect me to take it.He told me yesterday that its awkward talking to me.It is now,because i've stopped trying,i'm done,and he doesnt like that. lol

[Goodgirl93]

Oh dear, Gigi. You remind me of someone I used to know very well. Since when are his needs more important than yours? You can't put other people's needs in front of your own even if they get depressed and need you. What does Gigi feel? What does Gigi need? Don't let him confuse you just because you are a naturally loving and caring person...he is treating you BADLY...no excuses for that! Do yourself a favour and give him LOTS of space. Go out with your girlfriends and just have fun. You are too young to get serious with a boy. You don't even know yourself yet - trust me, I met my ex at your age. Now I realize that I should have dated many more guys before settling down with one so early in life. "We teach people how to treat us."

I don't intend on settling down,because i know at my age,it's highly unlikely unless it's with a high school sweetheart and what not.But if it happens it happens.I'm most definately not against a long term relationship cause i feel like i know what i want,i just havent found it.Well...i have,but i cant have him.But i officially given up on him,and its driving him insane.I havent cried,i havent been mean...nothing.And when he tries to fight, i just tell him i dont want to hear it,and i tell him to have a good night,and i stop messaging him so it doesnt turn into a fight.Its working so far,because aside form this nasty cold,I am feeling much better than i have in a long time