[billiejohnson1994]

I feel like my man dont want to see me as much as hes always saying ill see ya tomrrow but he says that all week, but he dont if i text him lets have sex, i feel like he sees hes ex more, what should i do to make him seee me or and pay more attention to me?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

billiejohnson,

If the only way you can get him to see you is to offer a booty call, then all he's there for is a booty call, I believe he's still in love with his ex and unfortunately, he can't move on therefore with another relationship...Sex is sex, so he's not emotionally attaching himself deliberately.

If you honestly view this "relationship" you'll see all the things you are missing, of what constitutes a relationship, holdling hands, laughing, spending time together always, dates, flowers, being totally in love "together" not one sided.

Your best bet is to never give him a text message again about sex, and never sleep with him again...If you love someone set them free, if they come back they are yours if they don't they never were......

Don't mistake the word ego...His ego will make him crawl back into your good books.

But, by saying "no more" , " I am not your booty call".....he'll have to evaluate if there are any feelings there other than friendship and good sex and either move on with you, or find someone else to have "sex" with...either way you deserve a "relationship" don't you? Not sex.

CW

[billiejohnson1994]

but we have been together for 3 and a half month hes ex is 25 but hes close to her kids even doe they anit hes he goes roound there to see them, but if i would to say no casey not tonight he would accept it but we dont do anything apart from sit watch films then go a bed we never go out anywhere, i always say lets go cinema and we plan to go but it never happens and now i want to go on holiday in augest and so does he im just wondering is it going to happen and how long we will last i want to be with him for longer and not lose him but he seems like he anit intrested anymore

[JadedQueen]

If he doesn't take you out in public in addition to his lack of effort towards your relationship, I must say I find it very suspicious. It sounds as if he is "hiding" your relationship and the only reason a guy would do that is if he's in another relationship. Are you sure his ex is indeed his ex? Sounds like you need to find someone that is wanting, willing and able to be in a relationship with you because it doesn't sound like this guy is going to put forth any more effort towards this relationship than what he's doing now. Unless you are content with that, my suggestion would be to move on and find someone else.