[rosekitten]

I'm not sure how you got 7pm as a time. The original post described it as sometime during the day.

Sex is often done around a certain time. People come home, prepare and eat dinner and then there is several hours until sleep time. Sex usually happens during that time. Of course one can wake the other out of a dead sleep and want sex. It is better if there is nothing that needs to be done, such as blowing off a college class to have sex. Even better is to be people of leisure, neither at school nor working. Then anytime will do (works great for vacations). If you need a mood, do what is necessary to get yourself in the mood for the time things will happen. Like looking at pictures of your SO at work and anticipating what is to happen. Everyone should know enough about themselves to know what it takes and not rely just on the generosity of others. If the partner knew of the planning, he deliberately sabotaged it by masturbating.

I was just simply using it as a point of reference. Even saying "hey, we're going to have sex on Monday, get in the mood" is too much. Yes, sex happens usually at the same/similar times of day because of work/school/kids/whatever, but that doesn't mean it *has* to happen or that it should be planned/expected.

[jns]

I was just simply using it as a point of reference. Even saying "hey, we're going to have sex on Monday, get in the mood" is too much. Yes, sex happens usually at the same/similar times of day because of work/school/kids/whatever, but that doesn't mean it *has* to happen or that it should be planned/expected.

If that was the case I would be ready on Monday. I would be anticipating it all day.

[rosekitten]

Monotony bores a lot of people. Some are alright with it. To me, for sex to be enjoyable it can't be a regularly planned (as in, to the day/time) activity. YMMV