[xojesse00]

My opinion, Your boyfriend wants more than you, even as srry as he might be,
guys are great at acting. Itd be different is he was just talkin to her, no he
was talking very sexual and even sending her pics, obviously she prolly sent him
pic thats how it goes, you send me, ill send you some. If you were everything to him,
he wouldnt need to talk to other girls, no matter if he wanted attention or not. like they say
once a cheater always a cheater. If he wanted more then, He'll always want more.
I have trust issues in my relationship with my boyfriend, the difference is he was hiding doing
drugs and looking at porn, my philosophy is you dont need to look at other girls, you have me, if my pics
arnt enought go find someone else. anyways I dont trust him at all and weve been dating 2yrs.
the stuff he did is not nothing to like what yours did, if my boyfriend did tht, i would c that
i wasnt enough and i would break up with him, because if im not number one, if im not good enough,
i will find someone who thinks so. everyone is different, you just have to look into your heart,
maybe you can forgive him, maybe it was just one mistake.

[Guest]

I somewhat agree with xojesse00, but it probably depends on his age... How old is he? If he is in his early 20's maybe he's still keeping his options open, or feeling like he wants to get his numbers up, have more experiences, etc, that's what guys are like. Guys are good at acting, and good at cheating. Most guys will have a primary girlfriend that they want to go home to, and then have multiple relations on the side that come and go. I'm not saying all guys are like this, but a lot of guys are. If he is a bit older, he's probably not taking you seriously, and is a player. The fact that you caught him in the act might actually help him to stop, and you guys might get closer, if you forgive him, trust him, but i would say always go with your instincts. If he really likes you and wants you, you will probably know..