[megan102]

Just out of curiosity, how many of you snoop on your S.O.
Be honest.

[Ashlee T.]

I have been in relationships with men that I snooped on. And I have been in relationships with men whom I did not snoop on. It's a really weird thing for me actually. Snooping is never something I feel like I WANT to do...like just out of curiousity or something like that. But there have been times when I felt compelled to. And 99.% of those times, my intuition turn out to be right.

[Missredd]

Just out of curiosity, how many of you snoop on your S.O.
Be honest.

I've snooped a few times but my mom always told me when you go looking, you might find something that'll surprise or even hurt you. I personally don't care for it, so I really try not too. But when I have in the past, what I thought, was right....

[megan102]

Having been cheated on before (previous relationships), I do not think my S.O is currently cheating now but I still have trust issues and feel like what if I don't snoop and then I never know?

[Missredd]

Having been cheated on before (previous relationships), I do not think my S.O is currently cheating now but I still have trust issues and feel like what if I don't snoop and then I never know?

But in your snooping, what happens when and if you find something you don't like? What action will you take? Will you say something or remain silent? If you say something, even if what you see is innocent, do you think this will cause a riff with you and your guy?

[rcoreyus]

I've never snooped, but then I'm much less bothered by the idea that my wife might have an affair than most people are. I care about what she does and doesn't do with me, not what she does with anyone else. I also completely believe that she ins't doing anything inappropriate, and if I cared, I would trust her completely. She also trusts me.

[LanaBear]

I don't nor have I ever snooped. I believe if you snoop, you are bound to find something and no matter how innocent, may be misconstrued. Once you snoop, the trust is gone.

[chaya]

I used to snoop on my sister, search her room when she was not home. I found many things I later teased her about.

I have never intentionally snooped on my husband but once while cleaning, I found 2 books hidden in his bottom drawer. They were "Sex: A Man's Guide" and "Satisfy a Woman Every Single Time". At first I thought of confronting him with them but thought better of it. If I had it would have embarrassed him and it is not my place to judge him. I had been wondering where he got the idea for some of the things he tried during intimacy. None of them worked on me, I wish they had.

[Harmony]

To answer the question, yes I have snooped and my suspicions were confirmed and then some. I only count it as half snooping since the circumstances were thus: I had a cell phone contract in my name which I took out for my (then) partner. I went through the bill and found she had been calling and texting her ex constantly,like even when she was in the same room as me. I don't mind contact with ex's per se, but what infuriated me was that she was constantly accusing me of cheating,wanting to cheat etc and generally giving me a hard time all round.

Overall I think nothing good can come from cheating, I don't like the concept of constantly being on a 'witch hunt' for someone and trying to uncover/discover the worst in them. If I don't trust someone now then I just don't get involved with them,not in life and not in love, pretty simple really, life's too short, I have better things to do than girl's phone.

[bubbles32]

Id never snoop because i wouldnt want it done on me. I dont have to snoop anyway because he shows me everything and i do him. Obviously some things are private but trust and being open builds trust and security. so nope id never snoop. If you think something is off or dont sound right and theyre being sneaky then hell yeah im searching cause you aint making a punk outta me.