He doesn't like touching you?! In what way?
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It depends on your attitude. The options are:
"I hate doing this and if it wasn't for him/her, I wouldn't do this. He/she better appreciate it!!"
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"I love him and I know he likes it. So to show my love, I do it for him."
The first breeds resentment, the second doesn't. I think the quote says something like, "10% of life is what happens to us, the rest is attitude."Comment
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Im hoping he does the latter. Thanks everyone.Comment
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Maybe someone said something to him and that is why he is opening doors.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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Okay please don't take offense to my statement because I only know a small amount of information on your relationship, but have you ever considered the possibility that he is gay? I only say that because I haven't really heard of many boyfriends pulling away from their girlfriends when she tries to kiss him... It is also totally possible that he isn't an affectionate guy and he is opening doors for you more often because he is trying to find some way other than physical to show that he cares for you.Comment
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My husband isn't very affectionate either hell still kiss me though so I don't think affection is the issue he might have other issues like icj14 said he might be gay that's not bad in itself but your not a man.Comment
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He's not gay. He's just not touchyComment
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Neither is mine and he isn't gay eitherComment
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I'm just saying it is one thing to not be touchy, and it is another when he straight pulls away when you try to kiss him, that's the ONLY reason why I suggested the possibility. But like I also said, he may just not be affectionate.Comment
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Mine is not affectionate at all but it still lets me kiss him and kisses me so I think this dude might have bigger problemComment
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