[fallprince]

About ten years ago, I posted on this forum, and I was sad and lonely and angry that so many women I had known had been so terrible to me.

I got some totally insensitive replies from the women here... the usual nonsense. There was maybe one saying something like "oh, you'll find someone" or some nonsense... I have written like literally a thousand open and honest dating emails, tried to find the right girl, tried to put aside all the years of terrible ******** from women...

And now, ten years later, I can finally no longer masturbate because I hate women so much.

Every single woman I've ever met has been a total lying **********. Period. There's just no redeeming qualities to any of them. And I just, its unfathomable to me. Is it just this country, is it all women... its so ********ing terrible.

I just have no idea what to do. I think maybe if rape were legal, women would lie and tease less and maybe that would be a step forward. This isn't something I say lightly... this is after ten god ******** years. And the years before that were just as bad.

[jns]

I don't think this forum was around in 2003.

What country are you talking about? Where in that country are you talking about?

Why do you think women are lying to you? Could you give several examples? I've found in general, that women and men are much the same in many aspects.

[pluck77]

You have to realize that women make decisions and act on our emotions and feelings. We can easily be moved from happiness to frustration to anger to exhiliration at the drop of a hat. It all depends on what is occurring around us and what moods or emotions we are feeling minute to minute. And like I said earlier our moods can change in an instant all based on our fluid emotions and feelings. Our fluid emotions and feelings are all due to what we are continuously experiencing.

[Stillness]

Many people, including me, have had their heart broken and have loved someone more than they loved us. Some of us even encounter people who mistreat us. But what I've found is that who we attract, how people treat us, and how we view people often has a lot to do with our own character. No all women are bad. Nobody's perfect, man or woman, but I've run across a lot of nice ladies and am married to one. If every woman you run into for over a decade is no good, then you probably need to look in the mirror.

Have you considered that it's something internal that's causing you problems as opposed to other people? Do you have any friends or relatives that you trust that can be honest with you and tell you if something about you turns people off? I don't know what kind of emails you're writing, but your writing here sounds hateful, angry, and dark. That's unattractive.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

About ten years ago, I posted on this forum, and I was sad and lonely and angry that so many women I had known had been so terrible to me.

I got some totally insensitive replies from the women here... the usual nonsense. There was maybe one saying something like "oh, you'll find someone" or some nonsense... I have written like literally a thousand open and honest dating emails, tried to find the right girl, tried to put aside all the years of terrible **************** from women...

And now, ten years later, I can finally no longer masturbate because I hate women so much.

Every single woman I've ever met has been a total lying ********************. Period. There's just no redeeming qualities to any of them. And I just, its unfathomable to me. Is it just this country, is it all women... its so ****************ing terrible.

I just have no idea what to do. I think maybe if rape were legal, women would lie and tease less and maybe that would be a step forward. This isn't something I say lightly... this is after ten god **************** years. And the years before that were just as bad.

fallprince,

I believe we commenced in 2006. Little I believe, our Admin joined in 2007, myself, 2008. So we were not here 10 years ago.

I take offense to your last paragraph. Women don't ask to be raped, and women raped have said NO, there is no teasing or lying.. I am tempted to edit that out, but given you are obviously hurting and using all frustrations unless Little decides to do so, I will leave it. Just bare in mind members that we do not agree with that paragraph.

This is your problem of what you are facing and whilst you wish to blame women you have to also look at how you are approaching them, how you are with a woman before judging all women and putting us into one category it's not that simple.

You are venting now why not just tell us some examples maybe we actually can help. , welcome to WH.

[JadedQueen]

Your post is very "generalized" and I take offense that you classify ALL women as liars... what exactly have women lied to you about? That's like saying that all men are cheaters. There are good ones and bad ones... and sometimes the good ones can turn into bad ones because the person they are with brings it out in them. When you say that every single woman you have met has been a liar... exactly how many women are we talking about? Maybe you are bitter about past disappointments when it comes to relations with the opposite sex and because of the anger and bitterness you come off as a complete jerk.

I am not trying to be mean when I say this... I am just kind of pointing out the obvious in case you are missing it, and you will probably take it the wrong way which wouldn't surprise me and like I said before.. I am not trying to be mean.... but have you ever stopped to consider that maybe there isn't anything wrong with all these women that you speak of.... perhaps the problem is with you and something that you are saying/doing after all.... in each and every encounter with a woman (that you claim is a liar) YOU have been the common denominator here which leads me to believe that the problem originates with you. I'm not an expert.... I'm just sayin...

[Adviser]

[/QUOTE] I just have no idea what to do. I think maybe if rape were legal, women would lie and tease less and maybe that would be a step forward. This isn't something I say lightly... this is after ten god **************** years. And the years before that were just as bad.[/QUOTE]

I take serious offence to this. Rape should not be used as a way of correcting behaviour. It is an abominable act which mentally and physically scars women for years after and humiliates them. If you seriously think that would improve your problems then you are severely mistaken.

I think that the fact you said this suggests a very unhealthy view of women. What is your attitude on getting to know women? How do you treat them and how do you expect them to act? I think, before you attempt to get involved with any more women, you need to sort out how you feel. With your negative feelings, any relationship you enter will not go well. If you expect them to lie, then you will always be paranoid and looking out for it, and there will be no trust.

Don't generalise, because if you do, you won't find anyone. Your attitude is what is making you feel like this. If you feel like this about women, then why would they want to be with you? This stems from you, in my opinion, not other women.

I suggest you make a list. Think of positive qualities that women possess. Think of the women you know. What are they good at? Focus on the positives, and try to combat your negativity, because happiness won't come while you feel like this.

[BabyGirl]

Several things here.

I have written like literally a thousand open and honest dating emails, tried to find the right girl, tried to put aside all the years of terrible " not sure what word you used .. BS Maybe " from women...

Have you tried out in actual " Life " not Internet " Life ". It's easy to be someone you may not be on the " Net ".

I just have no idea what to do. I think maybe if rape were legal, women would lie and tease less and maybe that would be a step forward.

I'd try some Mental Health Counseling. Believing that Raping a Woman would be a " Step Forward" is asinine ..
Sex or not giving you Sex has nothing to do with a Woman's Honesty, You seem to focus on Sex, her teasing, as you claim, in your mind is probably " leading you on ".And then you get frustrated when you don't get any Sex out of it.
Maybe if you tried to get to know a woman, her Mind and Heart before her " Body ", you might get somewhere.

Counseling is definitely called for, before you actually act out your belief that Rape will help you get laid .

And now, ten years later, I can finally no longer masturbate because I hate women so much.

This Leaves you with some Options still.

You can Date Men and not have to put up with us " Women ", though Men can Tease and Lie also. You can Masturbate to Male / Gay Porn, since you hate women so much and you can't do it to Women in Porn.

You can become a Monk and live with only Males that refrain from having Women for Sex and refrain from Masturbating ( for the most part ).. We did have a Monk here that left the Monk hood after finding a Woman.

But you are halfway there since you can't Masturbate anymore.Though you may not fit in in a Monastery, as they teach Love not Hate.

One other thing a, "Plus " to your problem.. If you can't Masturbate , the Women are safer from you being able to " get it up " to attempt a Rape . You Hate of Women is actually a Safety Net.

With your attitude, you are looking at a Very Long Lonely Life, unless you find a Male Companion that shares your hatred of Women.

[Little]

Fallprince, is this the thread you had posted? https://www.womens-health.com/boards...le-person.html

If it is, it might give us more insight into your feelings and position. You have said some very negative things here, yet women (and men!) are coming out of the woodwork to try to help you. If you continue posting and interacting in the conversation, you may find some help - but if you shut down and don't return, we can't help you at all.

[rcoreyus]

How have you been meeting these women who are terrible to you? Where are you sending the "dating" emails? There are some legitimate singles sites on the web, but there are also some that are entirely scams - set up specifically to entrap people. The unsolicited emails people get from "women who want to meet them" are entirely scams.

There are of course evil women, and evil men. If that is all you are running into, maybe you are looking in the wrong places?

The rape comment is of course inappropriate - and not really to the point. If all you wanted was sex, paying a prostitute is a much easier (and morally acceptable) way to go. If you want a relationship, then you can't get that by brutalizing women.