[sweet_peaa]

I recently moved in with my bf baby daddy of 4 years family house not only do I know his parents use but I recently found out that his step dad that stays in same house molested him when he was younger and would still try to send me and his wife my mother in law n my daughter out to try and get my bf high and would still ask him !!!... I recently found this out when my bf blurted it out in a big argument they were having!! N I never knew about it I know that the dad is no good n got him to start using young but when he got with me he stopped but after that argument his dad Gave me a letter telling me my bf was still using all this time I'm so hurt but yet confused bcuz I know my bf has been through a lot but I just don't know if I can keep using this as a excuse for his actions what do I do about this

[Stillness]

Protect your baby.

[Trixareforkids]

I agree with Stillness, your 1st priority has to be protecting your child and yourself. If you have any other safe place to go, get your little girl out of that situation. That is NOT a healthy environment for your child or yourself. Kids don't remember being poor (as long as they're not hungry) but the effects of being in or around abusive relationships (physical or mental) last for the rest of their lives. Just because you love someone or they love you (or a child) is not a reason to stay.

[jns]

You should not have your child around a molester. Get out of that situation.