[Takumi]

So my ex came back to try to fix things between us. She wants to start over, but I told her we needed to fix things before we got together. So right now we are friends who plan to become something.

I told her this doesn't mean she can go on dates with anyone else, we just working on us and trusting each other.

Everything else is alright as long as she keeping everything 100.

So we broke up cuz she ended up sleeping with her best friend when we were on break (but she thought it was a break up, which tells me communication between us sucked), when we thought of coming back together she wanted to still b friends with him. I was dumb to allow it, but I didn't want to control who she talked to.

We never really got back together, but ended up becoming more like friends with benefits .

Well we ended up breaking up totally. Because I was tired of the BS.

Right now she wants to fix things. She told me she ain't going to talk to him if I didn't want to. I straight up said no I don't want you talking to him.

His in the military and he gave his dog tag to her. I don't know if I should tell her to ****ing lose it or simply buy something to replace it. It irritates me to know she has that dudes neck thing...

P.s she said she's been wearing so long it's become part of her.

HELP

[Stillness]

If you've agreed to an exclusive relationship, then you can demand exclusivity. If you're not, then you can't.

That's my rule. I don't understand the "exclusive break-ups" and tentative plans to maybe do something in the future. It doesn't sound like she does either.

[Takumi]

No right now we just fixing a lot of things before we go back out. She told me she wanted this to work so we just building on the trust before we com back stronger lol

[DreamP346]

I agree with Stillness. Your relationship doesn't appear clear cut. Not sure what status you guys are in. Either it's a break or it's not.

Your gf also appears to have feelings for this best friend. Not really sure what type of feelings. There just seems to be too much confusion and grey lines.