[SashaJones]

I find myself loving a man I have only been with for 5 months. How is this so? He treats me good and my kids like him. He says he likes and cares for me but I still have my doubts. He says we must trust each other but I have been in two failed relationships due to cheating. So I have trust issues. He gets angry when I ask him questions, presuming that he's cheating. He says im insecure and to stop asking him questions. Sometimes I feel like backing up but at the same time I dont want to lose him.

[Something_Awesome]

It may anger him because by you asking those questions about cheating you are indirectly telling him that you don't love him as much as he loves you. That can sting a bit.

[jns]

He gets angry when I ask him questions, presuming that he's cheating.

By presuming he is cheating, your questioning of him is telling him you think he is a liar. This will eventually split your relationship.

[SashaJones]

No worries. I found out through an argument we had yesterday tht he's a butt hole. So I left him.

[jns]

One problem solved.

[atskitty2]

Good! Based on this & your other posts, was probably a good idea.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I'm glad. It's difficult finding someone that you can gel with so well but he's out there.

I say I'm glad because, he says he "likes" you not loves you that he "cares" for you not loves you and then you state he gets "angry" and he won't talk about things that concern you.

Perhaps you are in-secure, perhaps you do have trust issues but a decent man will see that and work with you over it, not get angry and certainly not say he likes and cares, rather is falling in love.

Or is.

He's out there Sasha.

[effy2014]

Like Kitty, I went back and re-read your other posts. With him needing to know where you were at all times and then refusing to answer any of your questions, the inequality could certainly put a strain on the relationship. I am glad that you have resolution!

[Baboy]

Congratulations on your decisiveness and swift action!

On your other thread, effy commented:

His conduct is not only weird, it is completely disrespectful.

Looks like you found out that effy was right.

As jns aptly remarked - One problem solved.

[ChristinaHedge]

I find myself loving a man I have only been with for 5 months. How is this so? He treats me good and my kids like him. He says he likes and cares for me but I still have my doubts. He says we must trust each other but I have been in two failed relationships due to cheating. So I have trust issues. He gets angry when I ask him questions, presuming that he's cheating. He says im insecure and to stop asking him questions. Sometimes I feel like backing up but at the same time I dont want to lose him.

Any reason that YOU can think of that he may not like constant questions as to whether he has been faithful? Or put it another way, do you think that this is something you should NOT ask him?

You need to ask yourself. Don't look to him, look at your actions. If you can justify them, well and good, if not....