[commonsense]

I NEED HELP!

I have been dating john doe for a while now, and from the very moment I met his sister, I knew there was something off about her. They have such a close bond that it almost makes me sick. I have a brother, but we don't kiss eachother or wear eachothers sweaters or even cook dinners together!!

I have been trying to "accept" this behaviour for a while now, but it is just getting to the point where I cannot deal with it anymore. I have tried talking to my boyfriend about how I feel about this situation and he just explains to me that she pretty much raised him and that they have a super close bond. I know people who are close with their sibblings, but never get to the extent that it has gotten to.

For example, at his oldest sister's birthday party, she was taking pictures of everybody that came out to celebrate. When it came time to take a picture with the "problem sister" and her bf, she wouldn't co-operate yet when it came time to take a picture with her brother, she was all over him. She always tells me how close her and her brother are to eachother and how they can read eachothers minds. She is always wearing his old t-shirts and wanting to join in on our movie dates and such. He allows her to cut his hair and sew his pants and missing buttons on his sweater.

I seriously do not know what to do! I am contemplating speaking to her about it eventually, but until then, I do not know if there is some sort of other approach to take or am I simply going mad?

I love this man with all my heart and want to make things work, but in order to do so, I need some serious advice.

Thank you to all.

By the way, what kind of kissing you talking about? Tonguing kissing, peck on the lips kissing or peck on the cheek kissing?

[retrospec]

My Boyfriend is 26 and his sister is 28.

The type of kissing is usually just pecks... sometimes they are more like smooches but are usually directed more to the side of the mouth and not directly on the lips. It's never just one kiss. It's usually more of a rapid fire affect that she does with her kisses to him.

And they do have a father, however, apparently he wasn't around as much as his children would have like him to be growing up. He was the "bread winner" and his wife was the "stay home." Nothing abnormal there.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

My Boyfriend is 26 and his sister is 28.

The type of kissing is usually just pecks... sometimes they are more like smooches but are usually directed more to the side of the mouth and not directly on the lips. It's never just one kiss. It's usually more of a rapid fire affect that she does with her kisses to him.

And they do have a father, however, apparently he wasn't around as much as his children would have like him to be growing up. He was the "bread winner" and his wife was the "stay home." Nothing abnormal there.

I hope i don't have a deviate mind but i'm thinking of something sinister here.

Like, dare i say, experiemental on each other when they were reaching puberty and as a result, he was her "first love" and consequently she just can't let go...

Dad wasn't around, mum was busy..... rapid fire effect kissing?

[macybelle]

I coud not be in a relationship like that. No way! It would be too weird and uncomfortable! I will not share my husand like that.