[Guest]

he can tell the difference and tells me it doesnt compare to any of those other hoes (thats the way he looks at them becuz they were easy)

They... were easy? Well, if he slept with them he was just as easy as they were. Seriously. That's such a hypocritical statement. If you slept with someone, you have no right to call them any sort of name because you're the same as them.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well, true there that you can't call the hoes, or even let him do that..

3 Virgins? How would they be feeling now?

What type of trance did he put on them, how beautiful did he make them feel to lose it to him?

I appreciate that you love him, so therefore, you take every word that is said to you by your man and smile.

Um, no...

Of course he respects you as you didn't cave in as the other's did but you need to teach him to respect "women" full stop.

That is just un-called for as a woman, in my books and you shouldn't be standing up to that as a woman?

Fair Call Ravsoma.

CW

[LadyLane]

Girl, you are just making me steamed!!

Don't you think you're being unreasonable, and don't you think that you're going to be alone forever and "that's fine"!!! Because neither of those things are true!!

Look, it boils down to this with someone's past: You get over it or you just don't. One or the other, there's no "trying" involved.

I think you criticized him a bit harshly because he wasn't the person you wanted him to be. Randy Paush said it best, when talking about men to his daughter - "Don't listen to what they say. Pay attention only to what they do."

You have every right to think God is going to give you your puzzle piece of a man, because He will. It may not be the person you think, either. And that's the strange part. But your lobster is out there. (Lobsters mate for life) And don't regret that other relationship you had. Every relationship is important in the long run. It gave you experience and lessons that I bet you're still using now.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Girl, you are just making me steamed!!

Don't you think you're being unreasonable, and don't you think that you're going to be alone forever and "that's fine"!!! Because neither of those things are true!!

Look, it boils down to this with someone's past: You get over it or you just don't. One or the other, there's no "trying" involved.

I think you criticized him a bit harshly because he wasn't the person you wanted him to be. Randy Paush said it best, when talking about men to his daughter - "Don't listen to what they say. Pay attention only to what they do."

You have every right to think God is going to give you your puzzle piece of a man, because He will. It may not be the person you think, either. And that's the strange part. But your lobster is out there. (Lobsters mate for life) And don't regret that other relationship you had. Every relationship is important in the long run. It gave you experience and lessons that I bet you're still using now.

Well this time i will disagree with you Ladylane whilst some how agree?

Simple.

People have the right to chose their beliefs... however, i have already stated, her finding a Virgin? Hard call.

Sure, how many times did i say "think about it"...

If she feels that she wanted this man, tried, now can't do it because "he's not a Virgin" that's not the reason, she was prepared to compromise but he went just that little bit further than her liking... To a one night stand...

She is thinking, she is able to compromise and let go of the totality of HE HAS TO BE A VIRGIN, as she was prepared to accept him and wait until he finished his relationship of 3 or so months.?

So, she's thinking outside of the square, all be it a little bit, but she is....

CW

[Guest]

I thought I would be fine... But I'm not. It's so obvious. I still like a guy that has a dirty past. -hangs head- I'm so hopeless. ^_^

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Instead of focusing on his dirty past focus on your own dirty future!

[Guest]

Instead of focusing on his dirty past focus on your own dirty future!

What the hell, buddy? What are you implying?

Oh hey. I know you're reading this, mysterious person.

You could be more appreciative and caring about it. I just spilled my guts.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh hey. I know you're reading this, mysterious person.

You could be more appreciative and caring about it. I just spilled my guts.

Just his choice of words... typical young male comment, !!... Plus not all men are caring creatures hey!!!

Well, you have to stop procrastinating full stop... You want him go get him... You don't leave it alone....

Your call....

Seems that your just trying to get through the parts you didn't like and perhaps .... now accepting them as you should.....

CW

[Guest]

Um...

Actually, mysterious person is the guy that this whole thread is about. I let him read it. I think he got sick from reading it because now he's in the bed with a stuffed nose.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Um...

Actually, mysterious person is the guy that this whole thread is about. I let him read it. I think he got sick from reading it because now he's in the bed with a stuffed nose.

LOL... Well you did write it under Anon? And, he is mysterious let's face it, Anonymouswhitefemale whom is a male, (yeah i know you went on to help your girlfriend at the time... )

Mmm.... So, he's staying over your place? Well that's a start, certainly says that you like each other hey.... You've given in a little bit more on
the relationship.

Why let him read it though? Talk... Communicate..... It makes more sense than him reading our thoughts and replies, we are third parties, you and him are if you can work together here, a team...

CW