[ashleynicole]

past

i say let him go. because he is a player apparently

[Guest]

LOL... Well you did write it under Anon? And, he is mysterious let's face it, Anonymouswhitefemale whom is a male, (yeah i know you went on to help your girlfriend at the time... )

Mmm.... So, he's staying over your place? Well that's a start, certainly says that you like each other hey.... You've given in a little bit more on
the relationship.

Why let him read it though? Talk... Communicate..... It makes more sense than him reading our thoughts and replies, we are third parties, you and him are if you can work together here, a team...

CW

No! ^_^' He's at his house. I just sent him the link.

i say let him go. because he is a player apparently

I'm not one to defend a guy, but I don't think he's a player. What makes you think he is?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ladylane
I think you criticized him a bit harshly because he wasn't the person you wanted him to be. Randy Paush said it best, when talking about men to his daughter - "Don't listen to what they say. Pay attention only to what they do."

Every relationship is important in the long run. It gave you experience and lessons that I bet you're still using now.

I am agreeing here love. Your being real harsh? On him and yourself....

You need to TALK to him, not provide a link and say hey read this, then hit him with, "you could be a bit more considerate i'm spilling my guts"...

Your NOT, your hidding behind a computer and instead of letting him read it and see how he feels, you give him what for?

Chill.... if you like him, and you can get over his past, start smiling and being with him and enjoy...

Don't you think?

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

What the hell, buddy? What are you implying?

What do you think I'm implying? I am of course talking of all the sordid sex games you could be indulging in...

[Uneeklyme]

What do you think I'm implying? I am of course talking of all the sordid sex games you could be indulging in...

LOL. Your baiting.

Gotta agree tho.

[Fallen1]

What do you think I'm implying? I am of course talking of all the sordid sex games you could be indulging in...

You have to remember one thing Anon, not everyone's desire or dream is to have a list a mile long of sexual partners.

Shrug ....... If you go around sleeping with every "Tom, Richard*, and Harry" you meet, what have you got left of yourself to give to that one special person you finally meet that you haven't given everyone else? Just my .02.


*Richard was supposed to be D*ck but the censor blocked it.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

You have to remember one thing Anon, not everyone's desire or dream is to have a list a mile long of sexual partners.

Shrug ....... If you go around sleeping with every "Tom, Richard*, and Harry" you meet, what have you got left of yourself to give to that one special person you finally meet that you haven't given everyone else? Just my .02.


*Richard was supposed to be D*ck but the censor blocked it.

Personally, i get the impression she kind of still likes him a, um, lot and if she could jump her own hurdle, she is ready for that person....

And, um, i agree with Fallen 1.... first times anyway should be because you want to experience, or because you feel the person you want to give it up to is worth it.... Not sorrid sex games, lol, that comes way later... let a women get over the nerves and initials first dont' you think?

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

You have to remember one thing Anon, not everyone's desire or dream is to have a list a mile long of sexual partners.

Sure, but men exist too ....

And I'm not baiting, really. I'm being serious, she should look to the future rather than the past, and if she's attracted to this guy which she clearly is then the trouble is pretty much just in her head. People who don't have sex build it into way more than it actually is.

[Fallen1]

Sure, but men exist too ....

True but not ALL men feel that way. Heck I live with one. My boyfriend had slept with no less than 14/16 people by the age of 22. Not to long ago he was telling me that he regretted his past.

No, I did not coax him into that, he brought it up so I know he wasn't telling me something because he though I wanted to hear it.

People who don't have sex build it into way more than it actually is.

Yes but some people also cheapen it.

[Guest]

You have to remember one thing Anon, not everyone's desire or dream is to have a list a mile long of sexual partners.

Shrug ....... If you go around sleeping with every "Tom, Richard*, and Harry" you meet, what have you got left of yourself to give to that one special person you finally meet that you haven't given everyone else? Just my .02.


*Richard was supposed to be D*ck but the censor blocked it.

Thank you. At least someone knows how I feel.

Personally, i get the impression she kind of still likes him a, um, lot and if she could jump her own hurdle, she is ready for that person....

And, um, i agree with Fallen 1.... first times anyway should be because you want to experience, or because you feel the person you want to give it up to is worth it.... Not sorrid sex games, lol, that comes way later... let a women get over the nerves and initials first dont' you think?

CW

Chaaaa. Kay kay. I talked to him last night and I think it could just be the fact that he didn't feel well that he was telling me everything I needed to know. He told me about his one night stand and how he felt about it and I felt better last night, but this morning wasn't so pleasant. I kinda went back to square one after we talked last night. I personally think that he only told me this because I asked him how he would feel if I got a boyfriend. He took the opportunity to catch my attention just incase I was going to get a boyfriend. I think I'll ask him.

Yes but some people also cheapen it.

Checkmate.