[miffed23]

you guys explain in detail to me that their is nothing i need to worry about or deal with.

It doesnt need to be explained in detail.... otherwise youll just get confused.

Here is it:- Youre boyfriend is with you, nobody else, he obviously doesnt want to be with anyone else or else he would have when he had the opportunity. You are going to loose him unless you let your paranoia go.
Simple.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

It doesnt need to be explained in detail.... otherwise youll just get confused.

Here is it:- Youre boyfriend is with you, nobody else, he obviously doesnt want to be with anyone else or else he would have when he had the opportunity. You are going to loose him unless you let your paranoia go.
Simple.

Well blonde3737, Miffed23, Mildred, Milfred, oh no that's not fair, don't ask me about the names, has truthfully spoken the truest words.

Why not just say, yeah, me being silly, i get it, enough, your right you lot?

Cause WE ARE....

Take care, get rid of the paranoia (is that how you spell it Miffed? ) and be happy okay...

CW

[anonymouswhitefemale]

shut the f up and deal with it.....

Ah, so you've picked up what you should do then ....

Next time you think about posting, why don't you just read this thread instead. The same (and good) advice has been posted over and over, so go and absorb some of that ............

[Fallen1]

Although I do agree that it is easier for those that are outside a situation to see what needs to be done ......

Gals and Guys please remember to keep it civil.

[blonde3737]

[QUOTE=CHANDLERS WISH;46215]Well blonde3737, Miffed23, Mildred, Milfred, oh no that's not fair, don't ask me about the names, has truthfully spoken the truest words.

Why not just say, yeah, me being silly, i get it, enough, your right you lot? ======
chandler--hahah what is this sentence saying???

Cause WE ARE....

[Fallen1]

Well blonde3737, Miffed23, Mildred, Milfred, oh no that's not fair, don't ask me about the names, has truthfully spoken the truest words.

Why not just say, yeah, me being silly, i get it, enough, your right you lot? ======
chandler--hahah what is this sentence saying???

Cause WE ARE....

What she's saying ....... what we've ALL been saying for the last 9 pages is that you need to get over it and trust your guy or you will loose him.

If you really read ..... read and comprehend what's being said it's not that hard to follow. I think maybe you just don't want to hear what's been said?

[blonde3737]

What she's saying ....... what we've ALL been saying for the last 9 pages is that you need to get over it and trust your guy or you will loose him.

If you really read ..... read and comprehend what's being said it's not that hard to follow. I think maybe you just don't want to hear what's been said?

haha. why wouldnt i want to hear what you guys have to say? of course i do. even though im repetitive, i still like to hear what you all say

[anonymouswhitefemale]

Is that why you want us all to waste our time repeating ourselves?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

haha. why wouldnt i want to hear what you guys have to say? of course i do. even though im repetitive, i still like to hear what you all say

Oh dear.... I am tempted to say that your boyfriend may actually know this inside and out, ( What i underlined ).

Questions:

1) How many times a day does he say he loves you?

2) Do you ask him to say it again? Even though he just said it?


You know if you pose the same question again for another 2 pages, me going to close thread and if not me, i believe another Mod will,cause people get annoyed, over, and over, and over....repeating, over, and over..

Attention seeking:

If you have trouble with "attention" that is that you need to hear things over and over, then you need to seek assistance outside help to stop it, as it is an compulsion.

Your boyfriend can't fix this....

And, it may be that emotionally you need constant praise...

Constant, it's okay.

Constant, he's great.

Just constant.... have a think about whether you feel that you do.......

CW

[blonde3737]

Oh dear.... I am tempted to say that your boyfriend may actually know this inside and out, ( What i underlined ).

Questions:

1) How many times a day does he say he loves you?

2) Do you ask him to say it again? Even though he just said it?


You know if you pose the same question again for another 2 pages, me going to close thread and if not me, i believe another Mod will,cause people get annoyed, over, and over, and over....repeating, over, and over..

Attention seeking:

If you have trouble with "attention" that is that you need to hear things over and over, then you need to seek assistance outside help to stop it, as it is an compulsion.

Your boyfriend can't fix this....

And, it may be that emotionally you need constant praise...

Constant, it's okay.

Constant, he's great.

Just constant.... have a think about whether you feel that you do.......

CW

I am done with the questioning chandler, i have come to realize through reading these that i have got all the answers i can possibly get so thank you

i will admit though, i have read this previous post from you and i don understand your working...constant, hes great, constant, its okay, are you refering that i feel he needs to tell me how great he is or how its okay

you said you are tempted to say that my boyfriend may know this inside and out....which was underlined, stating that im repetitive??

i wont drag this out, but i must be retarded trying to understand what you previous post said. dont worry no more questions reguarding the situation itself, you guys have helped me through that but i was just trying to understanding you rclosing post