[Clueless man]

Hi ladies, I don't know if this is the right place to post but I have a bit of a situation. Basically a female friend has uncharacteristically (We both had feelings for each other. Maybe still do.) not messaged me since 12.00 in the afternoon.

She emigrated here a month and is living alone after moving out of her friend's house. I have been helping her find a place as I let her down and kind of hinted I wanted to live with her etc.

OK let me get to the point. She has been looking at accommodation. I'm concerned for her safety.

Would it be innappropriate for me to contact her friends who live here and ask them to check on her. The problem is she never introduced them to me but I worked it out from Instagram photos etc.

I don't want to come across as a stalker when in reality I'm just protective.

Any thoughts appreciated.

[Clueless man]

She was mugged. Her phone was stolen by a mugger...Thank God I enquired after 6 women on another forum called me a creep and a stalker.

The main thing is she's ok. Except for the phone loss.. that upset her alot.

She did still call me a stalker though lol..

But that's women.

[jns]

She has a lot to consider and you didn't approach with compassion but rather opportunistically from what I can figure which is why she and her friends consider you a stalker. Tracking the friends by Instagram didn't help. I would stop trying to get in touch with her. I cannot see you repairing the situation. If she gets in touch with you, try to start over but I think that this is a lost cause.

[srknows]

i dont know, but it might be deleted, but its just my luck!
wrote this article in quora, but they deleted it.
but here is a snippets of it!
you guys might like it.... "If you talk to any number of super hot girls and approach them, you will start to see one thing over and over — she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, you will not not hook up with her. Period.
You will join the piles of men she’s had to reject because they weren’t confident enough.
The GOOD news is, that there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time.

Most really hot girls’ tests are enough to make men run away with their tails between their legs. If you know the technique to passing, then you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and are actually a sexual candidate.

If you don’t know this one secret technique, you will fail these tests and never gain entrance into the world of attracting and sleeping with truly beautiful women."

we,, if you want to read the full article, visit my medium profile (Whoo, at least they kept the article there) [link removed by mod per forum rules]

if, delete the article no worry, but if its here, let me know after read it, how does it make you feel?

[Wednesday L.F.]

i dont know, but it might be deleted, but its just my luck!
wrote this article in quora, but they deleted it.
but here is a snippets of it!
you guys might like it.... "If you talk to any number of super hot girls and approach them, you will start to see one thing over and over — she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, you will not not hook up with her. Period.
You will join the piles of men she’s had to reject because they weren’t confident enough.
The GOOD news is, that there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time.

Most really hot girls’ tests are enough to make men run away with their tails between their legs. If you know the technique to passing, then you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and are actually a sexual candidate.

If you don’t know this one secret technique, you will fail these tests and never gain entrance into the world of attracting and sleeping with truly beautiful women."

we,, if you want to read the full article, visit my medium profile (Whoo, at least they kept the article there) [link removed by mod per forum rules]

if, delete the article no worry, but if its here, let me know after read it, how does it make you feel?

This is absolutely misogynistic and inappropriate, except perhaps as a cautionary example. To portray "super hot" women as wily tricksters manipulating "candidates" into tests for casual sex is gross on so many levels.

The "secret technique" to befriending people of either gender is to be respectful, honest, courteous, and to share things in common. It's not to play weird games based on nothing.

[jns]

This is absolutely misogynistic and inappropriate, except perhaps as a cautionary example. To portray "super hot" women as wily tricksters manipulating "candidates" into tests for casual sex is gross on so many levels.

The "secret technique" to befriending people of either gender is to be respectful, honest, courteous, and to share things in common. It's not to play weird games based on nothing.

Great comments.