[LoVeLyShAnNoN]

of course i know the consequences if things were to come out, the only reason i am thinking of doing this is because i have done it before. i went out with a guy that i worked with, gorgeous as , i would go to his house often and all that. then one day i broke it off because i was too worried....but this guy seems so different..its almost like i can see through him...like i can see a future with him, its so weird. maybe that is a sign that i am better offf with this guy then the one i have. i really dont know...

[caterpillar79]

Seems like no matter what REASON is set before you, you have your eyes fixed unto that guy. Sorry to be blunt, but just my observation. You seem to find some justification from us that what you're (thinking of) doing is right.

Listen, and listen well...the grass always looks greener at the other side of the fence. Man tends not to be content of what he has. If you walk out cheating, it will backfire on you. It will feel good at first, but you will feel awful deep inside, you will not be able to sleep unless you numb yourself with something else.

All posters abve have points for you to seriously ponder. Do you want your daughter to despise you when she learns about it later?

You are buzzed apparently! Human pheromones on the loose! It is hard to find a job especially now. But if you cannot shake that giddy feeling over that guy, which for sure will ruin your marriage, find another job. Or switch places with your husband - have him get a job, you stay home and tend to your daughter...see for yourself what your husband is experiencing before you jump off board.

You just seem to be in a rut. Discuss this honestly with your husband and be ready to compromise. Your husband has proven himself to you already, that guy just "looks" promising - no proff yet! Why risk everything?

[HALFNOTHING]

I agree.. you're being selfish.. you're husband is staying at home bored just to take care of your daughter.. think of it.. i'll tell you, it's very lovely for the first time.. you'll be awful after knowing this guy.. there is tendency that this guy will disrespect you upon knowing what you are.. don't u think why this guy staying at casino? because he is is lonely and finding happiness. and maybe you are substitute to his happiness and after that? he will turn his back on you.. this guy has a lot of things to be proved to you.. if he is a good guy he won't stay at casino wasting his money..

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I agree.. you're being selfish.. you're husband is staying at home bored just to take care of your daughter.. think of it.. i'll tell you, it's very lovely for the first time.. you'll be awful after knowing this guy.. there is tendency that this guy will disrespect you upon knowing what you are.. don't u think why this guy staying at casino? because he is is lonely and finding happiness. and maybe you are substitute to his happiness and after that? he will turn his back on you.. this guy has a lot of things to be proved to you.. if he is a good guy he won't stay at casino wasting his money..

I have been working in this casino for about a year and ever since the first day i have had my eyes set on this gorgeous guy that works there as well

Awee sweet, he "works there too"... but i agree, once conquered, he's gone, I get that bit.

CW

[HALFNOTHING]

lol.. sorry.. i didn't got that..lol..

[CHANDLERS WISH]

your still supporting you still made good points love, x just pointing out she is feeling "frisky" over someone she does not know of intentions but also she is basing her lust on a lie which will bite her,

Never lie say it how it is i think

CW

[Guest]

Ridiculously selfish - Think of your child and the husband who is caring for it.

Sad to say, but i'm sure you did it.

God help you.