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  • sarahlee20
    Veteran Member
    • Feb 2010
    • 334

    A little update! = 0)

    For everyone following my threads and posts about my fiance and I relationship together, After about a 3 hours straight of talking. I've come to the conclusion that we just needed to talk more about issues that come up sooner and not let them eat us alive. Also after we had little fight we both calmed down and we got to talking about what we needed from each other. We then laid down together and talked and snuggled in bed after that we made love it's was awesome. All the issues on this forum were discussed and i believe with it now being out in the open and our feelings being addressed with eachh other/him that had me question our relationship and who we are as individuals and also as a couple. He admits to his downfalls and is going to improve on them which makes me happy. I am going to wait out the next few weeks and see if i see any changes. After all us humans aren't perfect. I think just we lost our relationship. We're also going to start having date night too. At least once a week. Those after all were my concerns. He told me EVERYTHING! Even some things i never knew about him . I believe here on out he is going to good. At least managable and he is going to try to be what i need no questions asked. At this point i feel confident about where things are headed with us. I am going to see how things develop after our talk but for the most part i think everything now is out in the open and things are going to be great from here on out. Just thought I'd give anyone who's been following the thread an update. Also he's going to be going to GA on his own too! thanks all for the support and ideas and opinions. I really appreciated it. I think it was alittle of both me For everyone following my threads and posts about my fiance and I relationship together, After about a 3 hours straight of talking. I've come to the conclusion that we just needed to talk more about issues that come up sooner and not let them eat us alive. Also after a little fight he calmed down and we got to talking about what we needed from each other. We then laid down together and talked and snuggled in bed. All the issues on this forum were discussed and i believe with it now being out in the open and addressed with him that had me question our relationship and who we are as individuals and also as a couple. He admits to his downfalls and is going to improve on them which makes me happy. I am going to wait out the next few weeks and see if i see any changes. Those after all were my concerns. He told me EVERYTHING! Even some things i never knew about him . I believe here on out he is going to good. At least manageable and he is going to try to be what i need no questions asked. At this point i feel confident about where things are headed with us. I am going to see how things develop after our talk but for the most part i think everything now is out in the open and things are going to be great from here on out. Just thought I'd give anyone who's been following the thread an update. thanks all for the support and ideas and opinions. I really appreciated it. I think it was ali ttle of both me over For everyone following my threads and posts about my fiance and I relationship together, After about a 3 hours straight of talking. I've come to the conclusion that we just needed to talk more about issues that come up sooner and not let them eat us alive. Also after a little fight he calmed down and we got to talking about what we needed from each other. We then laid down together and talked and snuggled in bed. All the issues on this forum were discussed and i believe with it now being out in the open and addressed with him that had me question our relationship and who we are as individuals and also as a couple. He admits to his downfalls and is going to improve on them which makes me happy. I am going to wait out the next few weeks and see if i see any changes. Those after all were my concerns. He told me EVERYTHING! Even some things i never knew about him . I believe here on out he is going to good. At least managable and he is going to try to be what i need no questions asked. At this point i feel confident about where things are headed with us. I am going to see how things develop after our talk but for the most part i think everything now is out in the open and things are going to be great from here on out. Just thought I'd give anyone who's been following the thread an update. thanks all for the support and ideas and opinions. I really appreciated it. I think it was a little of both me over analizing it too mixed with also some being some real concerns. I know he has taken into consideration what we talked about and I know he'll try his best and i love him with all my heart. I know too that i always will. For the first time in a long time we both understood each other and on the same page which was wonderful. IT felt like the person i met almost 2 years ago. Likei said we'll see. it and also some real concerns. I know he has taken into consideration what we talked about and I know he'll try his best and i love him with all my heart. I know too that i always will. For the first time in a long time we both understood each other and on the same page which was wonderful. IT felt like the person i met almost 2 years ago. Like i said we'll see. it and also some real concerns. I know he has taken into consideration what we talked about and I know he'll try his best and i love him with all my heart. I know thats all ANYONE can do.I know too that i always will love him forever. For the first time in a long time we both understood each other and on the same page which was wonderful . IT felt like the person i met almost 2 years ago. Likei said we'll see. I am hoping and crossing my fingers! anyway going to bed I'm tired. Thanks again all for the support. GN all.
    Life's a dance you learn as you go

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    • Joey
      Veteran Member
      • Feb 2010
      • 478

      aww! thats really good news! Happy for you hun - glad that you sorted it out and that your both talking to each other! Glad you feel happy about your relationship again!

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      • Guest

        communication is always it. after 22,000 years of marriage and all of the nonsense that cause us to drift apart, the only thing i can really attribute any of the issues to was a lack of communicating with each other. i see the exact same thing with a friendship thst is going down the toilet. if the other person had just listened (and i wasnt so scared to talk), we never would have had the conflicts or disagreements or misunderstandings we had.

        please, just talk...

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        • sarahlee20
          Veteran Member
          • Feb 2010
          • 334

          Thank you. I believe talking definitely made a difference and i feel a lot calming and happier now that he's listening and actually understanding. He's just a incredible person. I wasn't really to throw in the towel. He's really an incredible guy. I love him so much. Also sorry about my posts sticking together. I tried to fix it. I went in and edited my posts to just one but it came out that way. So I don't know. I tried to close or delete my old posts but. I'm not sure how to do that. so sorry. But thanks all for the replies
          Life's a dance you learn as you go

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