[someday99]

Should a woman say yes to sex all time her partner ask for it?

[sourpuss]

no. And neither should a man.

[Olympia]

No, But there rarely is a time when i am not gung-ho.. when he is!!! It could be a HJ (on either partner)

[Hopeless Dork]

No, she shouldn't... and her man, if he really respects as a person wouldn't want her to. If a guy wants a blow up doll that he can pull down from the closet and get an orgasm whenever the mood hits no matter what his lady feels like... then thats what he should get (a blow up doll)... and all he is really suitable to interact with.

There are so many factors to whether or not a woman should engage in any encounter... is he attempting to arouse her, make her feel sexy and sexual? Or is he just honey you need to bend over right now out of the blue when she's in bed with a head cold.

I personally think its important to satisfy your partner and they should find satisfying you equally important... but its a 2way street and respect should play a key role in that. A woman that always says no to her partner is not being fair. It shouldn't be a case of yes or no, it should be a mutual decision, one that both parties want to do... so there is never a yes or no even in the equation.

When you are intimate with someone, so much so that you are having sex with each other, you should be able to read each others body signals and know when its not cool to push for sex, even if you would like to have it.. and to know when its a great time to get down to biz.

The question is phrased as though women don't enjoy sex and either allow or don't allow their partner to have it, if its like that.... something is wrong with the relationship somewhere. There should be a desire by both parties to want to share in physical connection making and to also respect each others bounderies when the mood isn't right.

[rcoreyus]

No one should feel they always need to say no to sex. On the other hand, in a happy relationship there neither party should feel like saying no very often. If each partner tries to please the other, both should look forward to sex and enjoy it most of the time.

[WildChild]

I agree with Rcoreyus

[LanaBear]

No one should feel they always need to say no to sex. On the other hand, in a happy relationship there neither party should feel like saying no very often. If each partner tries to please the other, both should look forward to sex and enjoy it most of the time.

Completely agree here!

[pretzel]

No one should feel they always need to say no to sex. On the other hand, in a happy relationship there neither party should feel like saying no very often. If each partner tries to please the other, both should look forward to sex and enjoy it most of the time.

Agree with one slight caveat (see bold). I think rc may have meant to say that "No one should feel they always need to say "yes"" whether it's a man or woman.

Hope this is an accurate correction rc.

[WildChild]

LOL, missed that
I still agree that no one should feel that they always need to say NO

[stressed]

Nobody must feel obliged to say yes to sex, but it has to happen for a valid reason. As long as there is understanding and communication it cannot be a problem. But if one of the two constantly turns down his/her partner to turn to other means to satisfy one's self then I'd say it's wrong to do so. To say no once in a while due to tiredness/something valid is one thing, but to say no every time without giving a valid explanation is another. If it happens too often then something else is wrong.