[patricias213]

They have been "together" for years but it has been an off and on thing as far as i know. They both live in different states. Recently she went to visit him for a few days, think he kept her in a hotel. The house she lives in he had bought that for his wife along time ago now his mistress and her kids live there. Its a pity to know that hes still with the wife and kids when he tells everyone hes getting a divorce. yeah right!

[kaylar]

He'll never divorce his wife. And when he dies, the mistress
and her children will be thrown out, because the house might
still be in his name or his wife's name.

It's so foolish to be involved with a married man. Unless
one finds him already moved out of the house, living alone
a divorce in the works, it's likely he will NEVER divorce his
wife.

[TristaMD]

kaylar... i have a sneaking suspicion that you hate men.

[kaylar]

Having been in the Vanguard of the Women's Movement
since 1967; having worked in various areas, finally entering
the legal profession in 1980; there is very little I have not
heard/seen in re the relations between men and women.

To say "I hate Men" is rather peculiar at the highest.

I have seen adultery from all sides, from the wife/husband/
other woman.

I've formed companies for men whose main purpose, it
later appears, is to make sure that the mother of his
child gets next to nothing.

I've also seen women walk into a marriage, take the
men for every cent he has, and walk out, back to
her boyfriend, and he doesn't know what happened.