[Lostmom]

If i didnt know better-- Id say this was my husband. But we have been married almost 20 years, and this exact thing has happened.
Tho, he didnt tell me he "dosent remember doing it" he just said " I dont know why".

"My heart is so hurt and I go through times of absolute resentment and anger to sorrow and sadness" --- I am EXACTLY in the same position. I am at an absolute loss at this point in time. All this started over the summer, and he swore he was done with it when i confronted him-- but now, well I feel like he is just an expert on how to hide it better.... dosent help that he has a friend that is a microsoft expert and has loaded his computer with software that helps him do just that-- hide everything. his personal phone is "Broken" always locked up in the car-- yet the touch screen is also password protected..........

[WildChild]

If i didnt know better-- Id say this was my husband. But we have been married almost 20 years, and this exact thing has happened.
Tho, he didnt tell me he "dosent remember doing it" he just said " I dont know why".

"My heart is so hurt and I go through times of absolute resentment and anger to sorrow and sadness" --- I am EXACTLY in the same position. I am at an absolute loss at this point in time. All this started over the summer, and he swore he was done with it when i confronted him-- but now, well I feel like he is just an expert on how to hide it better.... dosent help that he has a friend that is a microsoft expert and has loaded his computer with software that helps him do just that-- hide everything. his personal phone is "Broken" always locked up in the car-- yet the touch screen is also password protected..........

Why are you still there?
It can't get much more obvious.
Get copies of all the financial records and personal records, go to an attorney and start proceedings.

[vanessacataldo80]

i totally understand

I 100% understand what u are going thru..my husband of 12yrs is also doing the same ..I've even read messages to other women he use to know telling them how he use to have crushes on them..and one girl to "hmu with your fine ***..I don't know what to do as well ..I've financially supported him for 2 yrs now.I love mt husband but he plays it off as "I'm just joking with them.myself as a wife could never say to another old guy friend ..I'm feeling so insecure now..I don't know what to do!!