[rcoreyus]

Fleur - if you can manage to still love someone despite not approving of some of their behavior, then I think you are a very admirable person. I hope he realizes how lucky he is, and I hope he is as good and open minded to you.

[Fleur]

That's very kind of you rcoreyus. And yes, he is really good and open minded to me, which is part of why I love him so much. He is really non-judgmental and accepts me with all my flaws and gives me the freedom to engage in behaviour that he doesn't necessarily approve of (like the occasional cigarette for example) without batting an eye. (Okay, he bats an eye but he doesn't say anything LOL). Relationships - complicated but intriguing and rewarding

[acerousme]

Joanna77, this is a womens Health forum, not a religion forum. We do accept all kinds of people here, but the OP has real concerns, and "turn to god" is not helping her any. Go to Godvine for a religious site, as trolling is not welcome here. Consider this your only warning.