So he is an ignorant , and weak to boot.
Only you know what you really want and it is hard to advise. However it might pay to put your children first.
They are your happiness and the source your future happiness.
Go to a sight associated with the book "Cupids poison arrow" Reuniting.
It will explain how relationships after the first 2 years depend on a hormone called oxytocin. Living apart means that Oxytocin levels will fall.
As your Oxytocin levels fall you will lose sexual interest in him. This causes a further fall in levels. Oxytocin is also responsible for loyalty in relationships.
You can see where this is leading.
If you decide to keep him for the children- then learn how to manipulate oxytocin in your relationship. It will rise naturally with your pregnancy but for it to raise in him at the same time he needs to be living with you. Dont leave things to chance- learn how to take control.
Good luck
Only you know what you really want and it is hard to advise. However it might pay to put your children first.
They are your happiness and the source your future happiness.
Go to a sight associated with the book "Cupids poison arrow" Reuniting.
It will explain how relationships after the first 2 years depend on a hormone called oxytocin. Living apart means that Oxytocin levels will fall.
As your Oxytocin levels fall you will lose sexual interest in him. This causes a further fall in levels. Oxytocin is also responsible for loyalty in relationships.
You can see where this is leading.
If you decide to keep him for the children- then learn how to manipulate oxytocin in your relationship. It will rise naturally with your pregnancy but for it to raise in him at the same time he needs to be living with you. Dont leave things to chance- learn how to take control.
Good luck
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