[addictedto being pregnant]

hi

i watched that link it was such a turn on and how loong u been with ur wife when u tell her i hope she is fine with ur intrests as some women can be funny about it a little advice before try a penis try a dildo to be sure if u want the real thing take my brother he wanted to try it with a bloke coz he wasnt sure if he liked women or men so he tryed a dildo first and he hated it now he is happily married with kids so he did not make a misstack (i am proud of him for making his intrests happen) so i hope all goes well

[Guest]

...Photographer... I understand where you're coming from with illustrating what you want, but you can do the same with words. Posting links like that can get you banned from the forum.

[ThePhotographer]

Thank you

I removed some of the links. Hope they let me stay. But you know, I'm a photographer, and A PICTURE IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS...

[WH Admin]

Warning

Do not post links to other sites and DEFINATELY do NOT post sexually explicit images or you will be banned!

[ThePhotographer]

language

English is my second language, so I do have trouble expressing exactly what my thoughts are. So a pic illustrate what I am talking about it. But I have removed the links so no need for a warning.

[Krysteen]

Bisexualism

I replied earlier to yout post and you had asked afew questions,,, First of all, no I never went to a live theatre to pay and watch, I had a friend I knew that was Bi and let him know of my curiousity of just watching. He said that he can arrange that and I can watch. Which he did. I liked what I saw and thought it was nothing that I had imagined,,,most pple think it's really gross to see/watch 2 men, but it wasn't. They were very sexual and looked like both enjoyed and had a good time. At the end of the day it's just sex, again it does not make you a better or worse person, it just an activity that can be enjoyed. I saw it live just 3 of us in the room. My husband is not Bi, but he knows of my interests though he would not get involved on any of it. I wish he would. I have met cpls that do whatever they do, together, it's better than cheating. Again if your wife likes the idea, share that experience together, live your life, so long as both are in agreement.

Again, best thing is to get or put an ad for a Bi cple in one of the adult website, get to know pple and you might get what you are looking for. Better yet, just have your wife and another cple and see if you will be comfortable even having the idea of someone else having sex inthe same room. You can just do oral and if you like it and all are comfortable, determine then if you really want to go to the next step. You are just curious, you might not like or enjoy it,, but it's a an expereience.Follow your heart and desires, but always be careful and play safe. Keep us updated on your journey. I admire that you are atleast honest with your self and want to share your thoughts with your wife, most men do not do that, they hide behind their wives and family. I have met alot of men, that have wifes, girlfriends, kids and they do it and their partners do not know. They wish that they could share that part of experience with them, but women would not want to hear it, or just the stereotype that you are gay and might be afraid that you will like it too much or leave them. Again I am quoting from most of the guys I talk to.

[ThePhotographer]

Kristeen

It is very interesting that you got to watch two guys. I wish I had known you in person. I have a very nice female friend that sometimes I feel like I could talk to her about it. But recently she started dating a guy that I don't get along with, so I don't want her to share my thoughts with that guy. But all you said is very, very interesting. At one time I met a girl online, when my wife was travelling overseas, and she said she enjoyed seeing two guys. She would rent gay videos or go to gay chatrooms to see pics. She started sending me short clips and videos. At one time I even doubted she was a real girl, so I told her that and she sent me her phone number. I called her, and she was indeed a real girl. We never met, I ended the online chatting when my wife returned. Is this kind of openess that I would love to have with my wife. The kind I had with that girl, and the kind I am having with you. I did not have these feelings when we met, 10 years ago. If I had them, I would have displayed them.
We do watch porn once in a while, so my plan has been the following. I have some bisexual porn (2 guys and 1 woman) that starts like normal porn, including double penetration, etc. But then turns bisex. I don't know how I will react or how she will react to that. I don't know.
Thanks for coming back to visit this blog. Hope we get to exchange more messages in the future.
All the very best,

[C]

First I would not stay married to my husband if he was gay. I believe that each of us has an underlying wild side. But if your girlfriend can satisfy you why go further. I have a wild side inside me that if I let it loose could be something else. I could have sex five times a day but I control it. I still have the same husband but also believe that their is the animal magic in many of us. I am included in this lot. Only as I have aged have I let go the feelings of being this sexual woman. Doing this I have turned a man who was in love with me, more in love with me. I believe we each have a secret inner person and only some of us can let it break free. I have.

BUT are you prepared if you go this route and love the male and male union sexually going that route. To ask a woman to live with you is selfish for she would be subjected to diseases that you would carry. Or might carry. No matter how safe you try and be these things do happen. I understand your strong hunger for sexual satisfaction but just weight the end which might show it's face. Your family and the rest of your friends. My words to you are only proceed with caution. If this is something you need to do, do it. If you can live your life without it, do it. I sometimes think how sexual it would have been having sex with a woman when I was younger. But I was beautiful and thin but that was then. I had a very good friend of mine that is a big writer of many books tell me that she had sex with another woman when she was 18 years old. I asked her if she ever did this again. She told me no, she knew if she did this again that she would never be satisfied with a man again in her life. That haunts me but I live with it. One hell of a fantasy when he is doing me...

Take care,
Caroline

[ThePhotographer]

Hello Caroline,
I understand your point now. As for me, I don't find myself gay - not because I want to try a penis. I do love women - every aspect of it. The body, the softness, the touch, the scent. There is nothing like holding a woman - specially from behind (lol). My curiosity about a man is the penis itself. I can't see myself romantically involved with a man. I don't know how can that be possible. I lived in NYC and I was actually disgusted by the activism of the gay community there. I lived in San Diego and I hated HillCrest - the gay neighborhood. Mostly because they all seemed so arrogant. They were not friendly at all and seemed so stressed out all the time. So if I ever find a male, would have to be a bisexual - someone who knows how to explore a woman and enjoy it too, but also someone who has a curiosity for same sex relationship. I definitelly would like to go down on him and possibly a 69. The perfect situation would be if a female were present.
So that's what is on my mind.

[poisongirl]

So, Photographer, I am just curious.. what do you consider yourself, as far as your sexual preference goes? Do you consider yourself bisexual? Do you have a desire for a relationship with a man, or is your attraction purely sexual?