[lizzardb63]

My fiance actually didn't even go to the strip club with his hunting group. Even though he didn't go this year, he said he MAY go in the future during deer hunting as to not give me the wrong impression that he'll never go again. As i said before, I don't care if he goes (a little part of me does, but I have to learn how to be confident and trust him) I just don't want him sitting at the stage and any of them touching him and vice versa. I think it all depends on how comfortable the girl is with herself. I have insecurities, and I'll be the first to admit that and unfortunately knowing my fiance is going to a strip club and will be the center of attention makes me feel vulnerable. Who honestly wants to think about their man enjoying another woman's naked body? I don't. And I geuss that's where I come in as being insecure. I should know he isn't going to do anything behind my back with them, but I don't want him to WANT to see other women. I guess I am jealous...and continuously working on this sensitive issue. It's a personal thing.

[maleview]

I don't think that is at all odd to be uncomfortable with this. I would be very uncomfortable knowing my wife was going to a strip club. It is bad enough with these Pure Romance parties (What really goes on at those things anyway?), but at least she usually comes home with something fun I think there should be a distinction between going for your batchelor party as a one time thing and a guy that goes with his buddies on other occasions.

[lizzardb63]

Ha, lol...pure romance parties. Basically you get shown a bunch of sex toys, lubes, lotions, flavored lubes and lotions, and you play some fun games (Like passing a big dildo between each other's legs in a circle until the song that is play turns off and then you're elimnated, like musical chairs). Then you can have drinks and snacks and each person goes into a private room with the pure romance sales person and orders if they want ot order anything. You can also win things. They also sell things like sex swings and such. Nothing for you to be worried about, its all women and its all to benefit you both!