[Guest]

Tinkerbell, you are completely rude. If you didn't notice Kaylar was lending a helping hand. Calling her a crack pot is a horrible thing to do.

Also, why bring your cheating on him into this? Made you two closer? Maybe that's the reason he's "raping" you at night. Ever think of this?

[kaylar]

Excuse me?

well i dont agree with her at all she is a bitter old crack pot who likes to talk about things like she really knows what she is talking about. whatever happened to you kaylar i'm sorry but not ALL men are scum of the earth. my husband is clear on the issue and if not there will be more trouble but i do agree to stay vigilant with him.

Pardon me?
Bitter?
Old?
Crackpot?

You don't know me at all.

You post all sorts of horrible situations you have had with the
various men in your life, and when offer advice, I become a
bitter old crackpot with problems?

Remarkable.

[addictedto being pregnant]

well i dont agree with her at all she is a bitter old crack pot who likes to talk about things like she really knows what she is talking about. whatever happened to you kaylar i'm sorry but not ALL men are scum of the earth. my husband is clear on the issue and if not there will be more trouble but i do agree to stay vigilant with him.
I love him and he loves me he knows my past with child abuse and being date raped he is very good about my feelings and now instead of holding when i cry at night he is making me deal with it so i dont stay dependent on him to confort me. does that sound like a monster. Not to me. I have cheated on him twice before we got married and it only made our relationship stronger and so will this. I dont have to look at the bad things in my relationship but when i do it only makes the good things better. like lemonade!!!

im sorry but that is no way to talk to someone u came on here for advice and opinions well kaylar was jus giving advice and her opinions of it all

[ChelseaRenee]

I love how you're calling him a wonderful man when he rapes you in your sleep, after fully well knowing your past with sexual abuse. Sure is a great guy, alright!

[Loris1]

I feel we should be cautious about judging a relationship on the basis of an email, none of us knw the relationship like T does. It's a very serious thing to make an allegation of rape or try to convince someone this is so, on the basis of a paragraph or two..

[ChelseaRenee]

The title of this is "Raped by my Husband"...Hello? She made the allegation, not me.

[Guest]

The title of this is "Raped by my Husband"...Hello? She made the allegation, not me.

Exactly. I mean...with a title like that.

[Angelquty]

Very disturbing

The whole point of telling your story is to get feed back. Right???
Weither or not you liked the feedback given to you on here is not relavent .
What is relavent is what is going on in your home and what you plan to do about it.
I think from reading yours and everyone elses resposnses to your prob. it is what I would say if not more.
This is NOT normal what your husband is doing. Ask any Psychiatrist.
So good luck and try to take things more lightly on here if you want help or responses to your venting.

[FLAQUITA]

Tinkerbell, Honestly I believe it is rap as a matter of fact I know what you are going thru because my husband does the same exact thing to me but he never wants to have intercourse with me while I am awake. I have told him about it seveal times theat it ****es me off I hate it and I want him to stop but the only thing he tells me that hes sorry and it won't happen again. But you know what everytime I turn around I am being woke up by him "****ing me" the last couple of times I acually fought back and still would not get off of me. I have told my mom what he is doing and she told me the same exact thing that kaylar said about it. I have called the police department and told them they asked me if I wanted to press charges for rape. At that time I told them no. But currently I am trying to find ways to dissappear so he cannot find me and find reasons to disappear like I was kiddnapped or something. I really don't want him to go to jail or anything because he is so young all I want to do is get him deported back to mexico or find a way to dissappear with my things that are in the house that we live in together. But Tinkerbell I sorry to tell you this hun but it will happen again maybe not this month but in the future it will happen again. I thought the same thing Oh its not going to happen I already told him it ****es me off he'll stop but it only got worse. And what is just as bad if I'm on my period and he can't have ssex with me while I am asleep I have been awaken by him jacking off on me and his **** landed all over my face. By the way if anyone has any ideas what I can do please tell me.

[kaylar]

This is in reply to FLAQUITA...


You know exactly what to do.

Men prey on their wives for the very reason that;
'oh she won't turn me in.'

they put their wives in hospitals, and out of the
wired up jaw, wifey is mutter; 'i fell' because she
doesn't want to get him in trouble.

Who has more of a right to live?
Him or You?

Women are not slaves purchased by their men masters
who have no choice but to put up with whatever he
tosses, and then, as the victim, be afraid to protect
yourself.

You are the victim.
Charge him for rape.
Get him out of the house and then leave.
Leave and tell no one where you are.

He WILL PROMISE
HE WILL BEG
HE WILL CRY

Do not be moved.
Get away from him.