I have a bad marriage. I get mistreated, but for some reason I am having a hard time packing up and leaving. I don't know why. I guess maybe its because I am afraid I wont find love again and that I am desperate because when I was single I had an awfully hard time finding boyfriends. Maybe its because I love the indepedence and don't want to have to live my parents again. Or maybe I am just being true to my vows: till death do us part. I don't know. I deserve a lot better than this and plus I don't need to be dealing with this when I am still fairly young (28). Before I got married I only dated one man. He mistreated me also. Even though he mistreated me I wouldn't dump him. I just sit back and take it because I was desperate to have some one to love. I guess I just answered my question. I wont leave because I desperate. Plus things are more complicated now: have to go through a divorce, have go through lots of emtional baggage, have divide up all the funiture, etc.
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You have to realise the first person who needs to love you is you!
Take your time and discover yourself, learn to be confident about
who you are and what you're worth. When that will happen, no
one will ever be able to mistreat the one you love cause she's
worth a whole lot more than they are. Believe it and move forward.
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Have y'all tried marriage counseling?Comment
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You need to develop your self esteem first and foremost, if you believe you do not deserve better you'll ALWAYS punch below your weight as far as men and relationships are concerned. Sorry for being blunt but I believe that to be true. YOu owe yourself better than this, many relationships are not perfect, but you shouldn't have to tolerate being mistreated, nowhere in wedding vows does it say you should suffer that does it?No matter how objective we try to be, we all see through our own eyes...Comment
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an abortion? i have never been pregnantComment
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No that's jade girl.... Not brunettebabeComment
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You cant leave cos your still in love with himComment
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thank you bladyn'smommy for clearing that up. artqween: you're confused. getting me confused with another memberComment
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